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Alternative
April 9th, 2009, 11:18 AM
hello !

okay , so in the past weeks i've started to hate my best friend for a reason , and i haven't been going out with him , and there's that guy who i have some classes with , he's nice , i've known him for like a month maybe so i don't know alot about him , but sometimes we talk when we see each other in the hallway or something like that , when he sees me he always comes to say hi , so i think that he kinda likes me or something , and also , he's the one who gave me his number , so anyways , i wanna go out with him , but i forgot to ask him about it in school , and its weekend here , i wanna send him an sms , and ask him about that , do you think it would be okay to do that ? or i'd sound stupid , desperate , weird and "friendless" ?

so what do you think i should do ?

by the way , when i say go out i mean hanging out as friends , not like a relationship or something .

i know this is really stupid , but...

Aneklusmos
April 9th, 2009, 03:17 PM
just try something like, "I'm bored wanna go _ together?"
asking to be best friends doesn't usually work out to well

Skeln
April 11th, 2009, 01:43 PM
Yeah, just start conversations with him more and a friendship will build. It's human nature, the longer you knoiw someone/are around omeone the deeper the bond gets. Just start talking more, probably ask to partner up with him if there's ever a group assignment, just interact with him more.

Beautiful Obsession
April 12th, 2009, 05:12 PM
yea i agree. you cant just text him saying.. Hi fancy bein best mates.. you need to txt him sayin something along to the lines of.. Hey up to anything later? wanna hang out?
the more you hang out the better friends you will get. you have to earn friendship u cant just ask for it xx