Are me and my friend gay?

[GoGreyhounds]

I was reading the Am I gay thing earlyer, and was wondering if me and my friend would be consider gay. Me and my friend hang out every weekend its just us, nobody else. we just ride around all night. But some things we do is werid. Like we always make eye contact with each other and kinda smile. We spit our gum into each others mouth. We tell each other if there hair is nice or what shirt looks good on each other. We kinda say gay things to each other. And like when he stays night in the morning to wake me up he gets in bed with me and humps me. One time he stayed night we i put my finger in his mouth and he started licking it, he also licked my arm. he also pulled down front of my pants and saw my peins. but we are always kinda touch each other on the inner thigh or breifly holding hands. Also he use hang out with his gay teacher all the time. We do get horny off each other. but also we both like girls. So my question is are just playing around or we gay?

[Requin]

Please do not post the same thread in different forums. It's not allowed.
Moving to Teen Sexuality.

[confusedboy]

Only you yourself know if ur gay. You could be playing around. Have you talked to him about it?

[newfiee 13]

i wouldnt say you were gay but you might be bi

[shikachunin]

only you can know. if anything, it shows that you two are EXTREMELY close. Ask him if he like likes you. also, do what makes you happy. if u like him, go for it!

[wavey]

I would call you Bi-Curious, but if this has gone on for a while, it is classed as bisexual.

But it doesnt matter. i've had similar experances and im just curious.

[russell]

iv also had simaler thing happen to me two

[nick]

Your story makes it sound as if your friend usually takes the lead. It sounds to me as if he's at least bi and maybe gay. It doesn't sound as if you're too alarmed or upset by the fact that he's pulled down your pants to look at your equipment so to be honest I dont think that sounds entirely straight either. I'm bi so I'm not trying to judge you in any put-down sort of way.

You may be just curious, experimenting, and rather tolerant, or there may be more to it. Impossible for anyone else to say. Just decide for yourself whether you want this sort of thing to continue, maybe develop further, or stop. Whatever you decide has to be right for you.

[YourFriend]

Well by what I saw you probebly are gay, but as sayed by guys above, only you know it.
I am gay too and I sure like it!

Have a good time with this dude if you are gay!::)

[tbboltz92]

It's whatever you make it out to be. I mean it could just be screwing around or oyu could be giveing each other sighns only you and your freind can make that descion

[NeverTooLate]

you guys are really close friends and i would say u guys r bi

[PuppetPrince]

TO ME!
i think this is like really really close friends =]
liek besty besties xD and its kinda cute.
but if there was another choice i was go with bi
but but but im still with numba one! xD

[GoGreyhounds]

Its werid i have always like girls. but iam kinda attracted to him. I think i kinda want be in relationship with him but i dont know how to go about doing it because i dont wont ask him out and him not be gay or bi. Do you know what I should do?

[XxTheBlackDeathxX]

Its werid i have always like girls. but iam kinda attracted to him. I think i kinda want be in relationship with him but i dont know how to go about doing it because i dont wont ask him out and him not be gay or bi. Do you know what I should do?


Try To Give Him Hints Or Something...

[russell]

Well... I dont beleve in gay or lez but im streght. Be what you wanna be

[nick]

Its werid i have always like girls. but iam kinda attracted to him. I think i kinda want be in relationship with him but i dont know how to go about doing it because i dont wont ask him out and him not be gay or bi. Do you know what I should do?
Based on what you said initially I suspect he's just waiting for you to ask

[Donkey]

Hi!

During puberty, your hormones begin to develop more and take control of your sexuality and such. This means that in puberty, sometimes you can be sexually attracted to someone of your own gender even if you're not actually gay. It's perfectly normal to get these feelings towards someone of your own sex, and it's all part of puberty. Lots of people your age feel things for others of their own gender.

This does not make you gay. You may turn out gay in the future, and that's fine. But doing this does not make you gay. For one thing, if you both like girls that would mean you are bisexual (attracted to both sexes). You could still be straight, which is very likely, and this is probably all just down to hormones.

Also remember that to be gay, you must have not only physical attraction (what hormones are causing) but emotional attraction to the opposite gender. If you feel like you emotionally are attracted to him, then it may be good to go into your next question of starting a relationship:

Starting a relationship in puberty is very normal. However, homosexual relationships in puberty aren't always the best of ideas. In schools when you're young, being gay for some reason is frowned upon which is a shame. I'm not saying it's wrong to have a gay relationship, but making it public may be a bad idea. If people find out, they may tease you which is not something that you would want. If you really do want to start a relationship, you can ask him. And how to go about that? The same as asking a girl out - find a private time when you're together and ask him out. If he humps you to wake you up, I'm sure that he also has feelings for you.

Hope I helped :)

[Lifeguard18]

Only u know ur gay. U could be bi if u like both sexualities. If I had a friend like tht I wuld ask if he is gay or bi and then ask him out. Thts my opinion LOL. Only u can make the decision

[optimashprime]

i would say ask him you will never know otherwise

[TheFreeshooterII]

Ive Had Same Things
My Cousin were Like Best friend and hes always Getting in my Bed (Seprate Beds)
when he stays over and humps me and starts masterbating infront of me
and i have no idea if hes bi
so i dont want to risk losing our friendhsip over it

[Prince_of_Peace]

be friends and keep that boundary or respect.

[TDBRLA]

You aren't really gay, just curious because you like girls too. maybe bi.

[Zan0ra]

maybe talk to him about it. I seriosly doubt you are though. Its just a friendly thing I guess. My friends do it all the time *not always to me*

[Cloud Spinner]

same thing also with me..i experimented with my couzin and after sometime we didnt have good realtionship as a cousin..we started ignoring each other and some stuffs like that,

[House]

From what you're saying, maybe you are gay because you are OK with what you both are doing.. Maybe you should ask him .

[blingibong]

I was reading the Am I gay thing earlyer, and was wondering if me and my friend would be consider gay. Me and my friend hang out every weekend its just us, nobody else. we just ride around all night. But some things we do is werid. Like we always make eye contact with each other and kinda smile. We spit our gum into each others mouth. We tell each other if there hair is nice or what shirt looks good on each other. We kinda say gay things to each other. And like when he stays night in the morning to wake me up he gets in bed with me and humps me. One time he stayed night we i put my finger in his mouth and he started licking it, he also licked my arm. he also pulled down front of my pants and saw my peins. but we are always kinda touch each other on the inner thigh or breifly holding hands. Also he use hang out with his gay teacher all the time. We do get horny off each other. but also we both like girls. So my question is are just playing around or we gay?

your jst playin keep avin fun m8:yeah::yes:

[sam i am]

im bi and i think u guys just like to fool around

[hardcore-smile]

just ask him what's going on between you two.

[dstnyisurs]

Sounds to me like you're bicurious or bisexual. =)
Welcome to the dark sideee. :P

[ErykaInspire.]

My friend Nikki and I act like this all the time.
We hold hands, find eachothers turnons, cuddle, flirt, ect.
But we're both guy crazy. We've held hands in public and stared people down that looked at us funny. Granted, we're not "bi", we only flirt with eachother girl-wise.
You could be, but it's entirely up to you.

(and for everyone that knows i'm with Josh, He knows about Nikki. So it's okay xD)

[Bluearmy]

I've said it, and I will say it again.

If you want to be, you will become.

[biochrome]

.ok.

[Ambrosia]

Please don't bump old threads! :locked: