i just dont know......

[rawsirk]

lately, i've been questioning myself about my sexualaity. I think i might be going gay, but i think im just curious. I think its because with the girls i've asked to go out with me either said no (religon reasons) or i see u as a friend. Also i actually wrote on a piece of paper of how many guy friends i have and how many girl friends i have. Guess wat came up more. Girls! I'm just not into soccer or footy, but i've resently joined a gym to improve my fitness. So i suppose I'm into more femmine activites, like i dont mind a shop for clothes and get a haircut. But i dont know. if i do say im gay or bi, i no this guy at my school who is gay and has friends, but just gets picked on. I guess...if i am gay or bi i would be afraid to admit it cause my dad is a muslim....so yea

What do you guys think? Have u had this experience before or knows who had? Or possibly is going through the same thing

[nick]

You sound very confused, and your post is very confusing to read. Being a bit feminine and not very sporty does not make you gay or bi although it does make other people assume you are and you can get picked on as a result. I get this because I'm very musical and crap at sport.

If you're not sure what your sexuality is give it more time. Some people say they new they were gay when they were 6, or whatever. It wasnt like that for me, I suppose I've known I bi for about a year or two, not more than that. Didnt even think about it before then. It will become clear for you if your patient, dont rush into making any rash statements to anyone in the mean time.

You can find me in the chat room most nights if you want to talk more about this.

[Dave]

The only way to know you are straight, bi or gay is by answering this questions:

1. Do you feel attracted physically by girls? (You like their bodies, breast, vagina, etc.)
2. Do you feel attracted mentally by girls? (You want to marry one and have a relationship.)
3. Do you feel attracted physically by boys? (you like their bodies, pecs, penis, etc.)
4. Do you feel attracted mentally by boys? (You want a realtionship and marry one.)


If you respond "yes" to the 2 questions of the same gender, you could be straight or gay.
If you respond "yes" to the 2 questions of the same gender, and "yes" to one of the another gender, you could be bi or curious.

Also, i don't how where you are at puberty, so it could be only the hormones or you're horny with guys sometimes, it doesn't matter how feminine you look or act, what matter's is what you like.:)

And to Gerontius, i discovered i was gay at 6, it's a small world isn't it?

[smokt0ut.]

i guess thats wat im going thru except im not femminin ..and my dad isnt muslim but yeah..