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rsibi
April 8th, 2009, 06:12 AM
I think I am masturbating toooo much.Therefore please suggest me ways to control my sexual feelings.Please let me know some techniques to control myself.

Patchy
April 8th, 2009, 06:15 AM
Firstly how often do you masturbate, if your masturbation is interfering with your life as in instead of going out with mates you stay at home and wank instead then I would reckon you need to cut down.

Its pretty hard to find a method that will calm you down, but one way would be to not look at pornography.

wavey
April 8th, 2009, 07:37 AM
Hey, tell us how often you masterbate and we can help. but heres a lil routine you can do.

week 1 : Masterbate 1/2 of what you usally do
Week 2 : Masterbate 1/2 of the above
Continue until you have 3-5 a week, there is no avg on wanking but do as often as you like between once a a week and 10 times a week.

Leprachaun
April 8th, 2009, 11:04 AM
cut off your penis. oj oj. i think you should just try cutting down to once a day. (I'm guessing that you do it more than once a day if you want to cut down)

Skittle Flavored
April 8th, 2009, 11:52 AM
What i did because i truly thought i was addicted it get a really good friend of yours, and ask him/her for help. Have him/her create a consequence that is really bad, such as calling your parents telling them what you did, and you have to do it every time you wank. Both of you have to be honest and on top of things. Its difficult, i know. But after a while, it makes like really easier.

marktheman
April 8th, 2009, 05:45 PM
I don't know how much you masturbate. I do it 3 times a day.

One suggestion is to keep busy. I do it more when I have free time with nothing to do. That's when I start to think about it.

Try to be around people so you're not in a good situation to do it. Invite your friends over or go over to their house after school.

Leave your bedroom door open at night so you can't do it without people hearing or seeing you.

IAMWILL
April 8th, 2009, 05:52 PM
To be honest the only time when you are "masturbating to much" is when it gets in the way of doing things like hanging out with friends, homework, family time, and stuff like that. Otherwise, you could masturbate all night!

Don't worry about slowing down, everyone masturbates more often in the first few months of discovering it then they'll do in life. I had the same problem too! Just take your mind off it, and you'll slowly lose interest. Maybe next time you're lying in bed or so and you start to feel horny, instead of touching yourself, maybe pick up a magazine (No pornography!) or a book, or text someone. Hope I helped ya.