should i tell my boyfriend??

[sienna.]

okayy yes.. i'm anorexic, but i don't think that has to do with my problem.
the last few months it hurts to have sex.
like him touching me, and putting pressure on me, it hurts my bones.
they all start to ache.
it has never happened to me before.
he is very muscley. like has the six pack and everything but he knows how to control his strenght.
i have never had this problem before.
it's like my body can't handle his body being ontop of it.

why is this happening??
and should i tell him??
or should i not worry about it??

thanks. :)

[AllThatIsLeft]

actually your anorexia could be exactly the reason.
your bones grow weak.
and i know you have probably heard this a million times, but you HAVE TO eat.
.. in any case. go see a doctor.
they can tell you better what's wrong than any of us can.

[Atonement]

Exactly.

I'm sure you've heard it, but...

When someone is anorexic and deprives their body of nutrition for a long period of time, their body's metabolism slows down to a point where their body functions stop. Like periods, digestion, and even bone structure decays. If it hurts, don't do it. Its not worth it. If he forces it ever, its wrong.

And relating to your other thread, a boyfriend that you like for the image and sex isn't going to be the support you need for the anorexia.

Be safe and be smart :daisy:

[sienna.]

no.
i love my boyfriend.
because i love everything about him.
his looks is just a bonus... :)

[staying_alive]

Your anorexia is most definitely your problem. Not allowing your body the nutrients and vitamins it needs can make your bones' strength decay. You need to eat. Plain and simple. You know you're a beautiful girl and people will love you no matter what.

[Aneklusmos]

I agree. Food is the only, and best, medicine for this problem.

[Truth]

The guy that hasent helped with your anorexia? Don't have sex with him. If he doesnt help you to get better, why should he get any pleasure? You NEED to go see a doctor and get some help. =/

[sienna.]

but do i tell him that i can't handle the pressure??
or am i making a big deal out of nothing.
because trust me..
making a big deal out of nothing i something that i really don't want to do.

what do i do??

[Cloud]

Tell him if hes hurting you cos then he should be gentler. or just ask him if you can switch round so your not supporting his weight.
but eating will give your bones strength so if you eat then stuff should get back to normal

[gatsmark01]

Yeah you should tell your Boyfriend first..
And Plz take care of urself becoz it is not a big issue but still it is not a monor problem..
I think you can understand that what I am trying to write to you..
Please take a proper check up from a expert Physician..

God Bless you...

[Ladysman]

Ya tell him you may just need to take a break

Trust me he will understand

[Furby]

In relation to what others have said i'm gonna piece somethings together.

Your anorexia is exactly the reason.
your bones grow weak, from not eating just try this, eat 2 meals a day with 1 snack, that should help but first tell your bf that switch things around or simply tell him you want a bit of a break.
I know that in the begining it may feel wierd getting on a routine but after about a week or so it should feel like and oranary day.

However you do it you simply can't go on like you are take some advice on here from all of us....

[Beautiful Obsession]

ok, well the problem is anorexia, and theres no point in saying "eat" becuase i know it not easy when you suffer from it, its not something that you just forget about and start eating again.

You should tell your boyfriend that your struggling to keep his weight and that when your having sex its hurting you, you love him and iim guessing he loves you, so he'll understand. but hes going to be askin why becus u were fine before. tell him about ur anorexia aswell, he'l be able to help and with someone else helping your through it you might be able to start eating again and have sex and enjoy it.

Pm if you wanna.

good luck hunni xxxx

[nick]

Tell him if hes hurting you cos then he should be gentler. or just ask him if you can switch round so your not supporting his weight.
but eating will give your bones strength so if you eat then stuff should get back to normal
I agree with Okay, the answer may be for you to go on top. Believe me no guy is likely to feel let down or short changed by that, its awsome