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hahahah1
April 6th, 2009, 08:15 AM
i am 15 years old had my period for since start of last year
and i have a verry skinny upper body and i tend to only put weight on my bum and legs! i recently lost heeeaps of wieght like 10 or 15 kilos and i now have absolutely no boobs!
my upper body is sooooo skiinny and my lower boddy is normal or slightly bit bigger then normal.
will i ever get boobs? how do i change my body its not normal?!!!!

Donkey
April 6th, 2009, 08:30 AM
You should see your GP, and seek proper medical advice.

But I'd think it's just because you haven't really developed yet. What you were thinking were your breasts may have just been fat. You should talk to your GP, because I don't know much about it. But it will probably come with time, and I don't think anyone will be able to do much about it. Just don't try to put on more weight, that's not healthy and will not solve your problem. You will get breasts when you develop enough to have them growing normally, I'm sure.

Keep going the way you've been going, it's great that you've lost weight.

:P sorry for my lack of knowledge on girl's puberty xD

BeautifulSilence
April 6th, 2009, 05:17 PM
A lot of females carry most of their weight on their hips. The pear shape is actually the most common.

And everyone has their own place that they lose and gain wieght on (mine's my rib area). Boobs are just fat, so that's why they went with the weight loss and if you gained weight they'd probably come back.

From what you have said, I personally wouldn't have said there's a problem, 'specially when a lot of girls seem to exaggerate things in their own perspective. I think you need to understand that "normal" doesn't really exist during puberty, and only a doctor can tell you whether there is a real problem or not.

byee
April 6th, 2009, 08:10 PM
(Gosh that Laura chica is good!).

Good onya for losing the weight! It takes time to get used to the change, and i think it takes time for your body, too. One of the things you can do which might alleviate the imbalance you're seeing is to begin an exercise routine to work out and fill in the muscles in your upper body (and legs, too). Find a good work out, start slow, and be consistent. You should see results slowly, but the improvement in muscle tone and mass should make you look (and feel) much better.

hahahah1
April 7th, 2009, 02:58 AM
i do lots of excersize, and i eat reeeeally well, (heaps of fruit and vegies and hardly any fat and not too many carbs)
and i weigh 51 kiloes and am about 162cm but its just all on my legs! it wont seem to go, because when i keep losing weight it keeps coming off my top half making me look sickly skinny, you should see my wrists they are litterly just skin and bone. its so frustrating!!!

i need to find out how to gain weight on top and lose it on the bottom

~Please use the edit button instead of double posting. ~Laura.

Truth
April 7th, 2009, 07:27 AM
You can't. Most girls gain weight in their thigh/hip area while guys gain it in their stomache area, it's not something you can change, and making yourself fatter to have bigger breasts, is not a good idea since it doesnt matter. =o

BeautifulSilence
April 7th, 2009, 01:27 PM
Just so you know "not too many carbs" isn't too healthy. Carbohydrates are the main supply of energy and as long as it's more complex carbs (starchy foods like potatoes and bread) and less simple carbs (sugary foods) then you shouldn't need to worry about limiting them.

Another thing you're going to have to deal with is that we can't choose the places we gain and lose weight from... If we could, I'd be incredibly happy, with no body hang ups at all. But no one has that power.

You never know, you might actually grow into your shape... You're only fifteen and your body is still adapting. You may still have room to grow and the taller you get the less bulky your bottom half will look.

Either way you should be happy. Some people prefer big bums to big boobs, and a lot of girls would kill to have a small/flt tummy!

IrishJohnny28
April 7th, 2009, 08:44 PM
alrite im gonna explain this. losing fat is like dipping a bucket into a lake when you pull the bucket out there isnt a hole where the water used to be. the entire volume of the lake just goes down. you cant burn fat from a specific part of the body. what you think is fat may be muscle. try flexing your legs and buttocks where you believe you are fat and see just how much of it is really muscle. you'll be surprised. youre also probly naturally destined to have wide hips. look at your mother and grandmother. if they have wide hips thats what youre gonna have. wide hips are not bad either! you'll get what i mean if you ever decide to become pregnant ;)

hahahah1
April 8th, 2009, 07:09 AM
okaaaaaay well none of that really helped ha.

Triceratops
April 8th, 2009, 03:17 PM
From what you have said, I personally wouldn't have said there's a problem, 'specially when a lot of girls seem to exaggerate things in their own perspective.

That's very true, girls in general usually make things seems worse than what they really are ;) That's just us though!

However, I personally think if you lost more weight, you are going to look even more scrawny on top which isn't a particularly good look. So I think you should wear tight fitted shirts to show off your flat stomach and draw attention to the best part of your body.

If you feel unhappy with your bottom half then I suggest wearing jeans or skirts that are flattering for your shape and make sure they're black (which is a slimming color). Wear that with a pair of high heels which will make your legs look taller and thinner. In the meantime, try doing exercises that are solely based on making your legs and butt smaller, not your top half.

As for your boobs, if they are too small then try wearing a push-up bra or a padded bra. If else fails, then stuff tissue down your bra, it does work apparently :P.

hahahah1
April 10th, 2009, 08:38 AM
yeah thanks for ya help, my boobs are soo small though, like i wear a pushup bra its size 10A wiith bulk padding and its still big. is my body always going to be like this? im really embarrased about it because its not like my friends bodies

BeautifulSilence
April 10th, 2009, 08:43 AM
yeah thanks for ya help, my boobs are soo small though, like i wear a pushup bra its size 10A wiith bulk padding and its still big. is my body always going to be like this? im really embarrased about it because its not like my friends bodies

Chances are that your ribcage will expand, bringing the bandsize up. And the breasts usually develop further from there.

You shouldn't be embarrassed about the way your body grows and you shouldn't compare yourself to other girls, either.

This is something you just can't control.