ADVICE! Friend sank

[Tyt94]

So I am pretty close to this guy. We are both 14 year old guys. He's said before that hes heard other guys at school talk about what they've done with girls and wanking. He mentioned that he thinks it's gross that guys jerk together...the subject of dick has come up like once-we don't talk about that...so I was at a friends party with him, and I saw his dick without him knowing. So it started a big thing with the girls at the party, and after a while he found out. So I wanna ask him if he masturbates? I'm sure he does but he isn't far into puberty...so idk. Please only reply with advice on asking him, not telling me not to

[IAMWILL]

Well, masturbation is a personal thing, so its very risky to ask someone about that type of thing. On the other hand though, boys are very curious and hormonal during puberty, wether they want to or like it or not, so they feel comfortable normally talking about that stuff. If you're going to ask, you'll know when the time is right.

(And by the way, he probably said "two guys masturbating with each other is gross" because he doesn't want to seem weird and all that bullshit, because honestly, I believe that every guy at one point wants to masturbate with a friend, its kinda a comfort thing)

Thirdly, seeing that you're new, welcome to VT. My names Will, and I love to help people out. If you have any questions or anything, PM me, and I'd love to help you out.

[LKSora]

man
i just wonder the same thing
well it depends on how ''close'' friends you are
just a friend of yours or your mate?
cuz he migt not trust you that much
i would suggest that you slowly changed the subject to anything about masturbating/penises/sex
i mean you can't just say ''hi,what's up,'' and then '' do you masturbate?''
if you're the two of you and talk about anything arousing he might tell you

[irishguy913]

i would leave it. he probly dosent feel comfortable talking about it and if u do talk to him about it he might get mad or angry. so i would just leave it. he will tell u when he wants to or he might not

[Hauptmann Kauffman]

If he wasnt interested in the topic of penis in general, I wouldnt bring it up with him. You're friendship isnt worth it. He might look at you differently, and you dont want that

[iceyfresh]

Well really all you can do is either take a risk an ask or dont ask its your choice. No Worry's

[aerobooster]

ask him if you want. he probably won't mind. it depends how close you are to him

[Donkey]

If I were you, I wouldn't. If he said it's gross he probably has strong feelings about it and your friendship may suffer should you ask him to masturbate with you. It doesn't really matter how far he is in puberty, anyone can masturbate however you need to be developed enough to ejaculate too. Now, I did say if I were you I wouldn't. But, at the end of the day, it is up to you. I just think it's a bad idea.

But I always answer like this with questions like these. Don't bring it up too quickly. It will freak him out if you straight out say 'Do you want to masturbate?' I suggest you begin a conversation about the matter, and gently ease into asking him if you are going to at all. I still advise against it though, but if you are going to that's the best way.

[xander-6-6-6]

Me and my friends talk about that all the time
so yeah i just guess it depends on how close friends you are.