I need help

[explosiveartist]

I've had one boyfriend who I loved and adored. But things happend and we split, I was going well solo until a certain turn of events. He messaged me one night, telling me that he was bashed and he hasn't told anyone but me, all of a sudden I'm starting to like him again, and I don't want to because even if you start sating again, it wouldn't have any meaning, what should I do?:(

[byee]

You could try remembering the things that caused you to split.

People don't change, things don't improve, unless there's some process in place for that to happen, like talking and working things thru. In the absence of that, things aren't very ikely to have changed.

[Ladysman]

I agree just follo ur instinks

[Skeln]

I agree with Sam (once again) that things don't usually change, especially so quickly unless their is some big, dramatic experience.

I say you just mind your own business and, if it comes to this, tell your friend (or ex-friend) you no longer want a dating relationship with him. (Or you could tell him whatever you want, just tell him the truth).

[Sceneboy612]

If you want to stop liking him, as sam said, just remember why you split, and how it made you feel. And he was also drunk... so he might not have any more feelings for you. But if you want to try it out again, go for it

[kily]

You could try remembering the things that caused you to split.