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dont_tell_my_mom
April 4th, 2009, 01:37 PM
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byee
April 4th, 2009, 01:40 PM
It takes a while to find out what's pleasurable for you, it sounds like this is all very new for you. Give it some time, take your time, and I'm sure you'll find what works for you.

As an FYI, sexual feelings have nithing to do with virginity, but more to do with personal experience, which takes some time and patience. Everyone has a sexual response, it just takes time and creativity.

Loislane
April 4th, 2009, 01:42 PM
Watching porn is okay, but at a level. If you watch it so much that you're actually bunking of school/clubs just to watch porn, then that's a problem.

As said above, it takes time to know what's good for you and what pleasures you the most. If you want to start feeling things, maybe you can start using objects like a hairbrush. Make sure if you do use it, clean it before and afterwards very well. Figure out what's best for you.

Good luck :)

dont_tell_my_mom
April 6th, 2009, 10:52 AM
thx so much but could i get more advice from others please!

Donkey
April 6th, 2009, 12:29 PM
Hi, I am a 13 year old virgin and I watch porn allot. I dunno why but it arouses me!
Hi! That is normal, even though it is illegal to do so. This means it may be a bad idea, and I am not encouraging it. I will say, though, that while it seems strange to you, you'd be surprised how many people of your own age and gender watch pornography. The pornography is arousing you because of your hormones and the sex drive that comes with them. When you're in your teens, your hormones are raging and therefore you get very horny. More so than when you're older, because your hormones have calmed down more. It should arouse you, this is the way your body is set to function unless you are asexual.

Also when I masturbate I dont feel anything. I mean it doesnt feel good.
For some girls, masturbating different parts of the vagina can be more pleasurable than masturbating others. The most normal way to masturbate for a girl would be by rubbing their clitoris. However, not everyone finds this as satisfying as others. It's up to you to find up what you like best and how you like doing it. Just experiment a bit to see what you like and what you don't like, but be careful.

Am I still a virgin?
Yes! You only lose your virginity when you actually have sexual intercourse. By masturbating, you do not lose your virginity.

Or is being a virgin the reason why I feel nothing
Nope. You can experience the feeling of masturbation whether you are a virgin or not. Many girls who masturbate are virgins, it makes absolutely no difference.

Hope I answered your question :)

Truth
April 7th, 2009, 07:42 AM
:confused:hi i am a 13 year old virgin and i watch porn ALOT. i dunno y but it arouses me! Also when i masturbate i dont feel anything. I mean it doesnt feel good. am i still a virgin? or is being a virgin the reason y i feel nothing? please help! Well, porn arouses almost everyone in their teens, you will probably find it less arousing later in life unless it's with your partner, and you should feel something, but you probably are doing it wrong, and your a virgin unless you've had sexual intercourse (In my opinion ).

Beautiful Obsession
April 12th, 2009, 05:23 PM
well unless you have actually had sex your a virgin, and its not the reason why yu feel nothing, it might take time to find what you enjoy. x

The Joker
April 12th, 2009, 09:33 PM
:confused:hi i am a 13 year old virgin and i watch porn ALOT. i dunno y but it arouses me! Also when i masturbate i dont feel anything. I mean it doesnt feel good. am i still a virgin? or is being a virgin the reason y i feel nothing? please help!

I'm a virgin and masturbating feels GREAT, even though I'm a guy, I think it goes for everyone.

Skuller818
April 13th, 2009, 08:04 PM
Your fine watching p0rn I do all the time, but trust me don't expect your first time to be like that, and don't try to make it you'll end up dissipointed

the ingenous mind
April 14th, 2009, 08:02 PM
hey im the same age as you, i still hold the v card and i watch porn too. (embarassed lol) and i "do my thing" alot too lol no harm in that kid :) :)

Viral Death
April 14th, 2009, 09:10 PM
Uhh... You are still a virgin so don't worry you don't want to lose that soon.

No I think the reason you can't feal anything is because you masturbate a lot maybe you should lay off for a couple days.