The big BANG!

[BeautifulTragedy]

Well, me and my boyfriend Mike have been dating for 2 years now. And id say we're pretty serious. He took my virginity a year and 3 days into our relationship and i'd say im slowly but surely falling in love. But hes in his 2nd year of college [hes 20] and im a senior in high school [im 17] and hes been going to FAMU in Miami, Florida not to far from where I live. And he comes over like ALL the time and I go hang in his dorm all the time but he says hes thinking about transferring to Yale University in Connecticut for his Junior year. He said he'd still try and fly out to see me when he can but thats to big of a change for me, and our relationship. But I do want him to do whats best for his education. What do I do?

[BuryYourFlame]

...and i'd say im slowly but surely falling in love.

uuummm...please tell me if i am wrong, but i thought the point of sex is to express how much you love someone...if you are only falling in love now...then i dont think that is a very healthy relationship for you emotionally...

now...to do with him moving away...

this is yet another reason why sex was not designed for before marriage, it creates a connection that us, as teenagers, are not ready for...i think that it would be best to maybe break up with him, you might be able to keep a long distance thing going, but they only rarely work...

ok...after re-reading this post...it sounds pretty lecturish...well...it is not meant to be like that...im just saying what i believe and one of the reasons behind that...i still think that breaking up with him would be best, if you two still have feelings for each other after you can move over there or something, then go for it, but for now, i suggest a clean break.

ok...i am very tired...so maybe i am not saying what i wanna say at all...we will see in the morning...

[jack straw]

uuummm...please tell me if i am wrong, but i thought the point of sex is to express how much you love someone...if you are only falling in love now...then i dont think that is a very healthy relationship for you emotionally...

I would have to aggree here, that sex without love isn't a great idea.

Moving along, The problem with the long-distance relationship is that, well, he's probably gonna have a few relationships outside of yours, and that could to some nasty breakups later on. I dont want to break up a relationship that has potential, but it might be best in the long run.