Is it okay

[explosiveartist]

If you want to masturbate with friends? I've been wanting to do it, but I think its wrong, is it?

[Narwhale343]

Well, it depends. It might ruin your friendship. But that's what I think. If you think that yo really want to go for it.

[Blue63]

It really all depends on you and our friends, it's right and wrong for different people. It something some guys do and on the other hand it's just not some guys style.

[ezduzit323]

if ur friend wants to do it with u too then i think it's fine. just don't ask for advice on how to do it! haha

[NeverTooLate]

well depends on how ur friends feel

[HikaruTheHunter]

I believe it is not okay to talk about that here.

[Furby]

No but it's ok to talk about anal masterbation no offence but think about what your saying anal is ok regular is not, i've j/o'd with a friend B4 just cover youselfs and don't get tempted to look at him even if he's covered.

[Bigboy1]

it is only wrong if you want it to be

[marktheman]

It depends on who they are and what they think about it. There are probably some who would love to do it but finding out which ones is tough and like some people said, if you ask the wrong guy you could screw up your friendship.
I do it all the time with my best friend but we've been friends a long time and I knew I could ask him without him getting pissed off if he didn't want to.

[McLegit24]

I've actually wanted to try this at one point when I was 14 as well. Never actually went through with it though.

[pontiacdriver]

If you want to masturbate with friends? I've been wanting to do it, but I think its wrong, is it?

There are two schools of thought on your question as one group will say that masturbation should be kept private while others say that it is something that is all right to be shared. To be frank, everything depends upon the relationship you have with your friend(s) and whether or not doing something sexual like that will negatively impact your friendship. There are several things about which you should consider if you want to experiment:

1) You may bring up experimenting with a friend only to find that he might get so troubled by the request he rejects you as a friend after that.

2) Your friend could masturbate with you, but then things could get weird and uncomfortable with you both after that.

3) It is most likely that you would want to keep what you do with your friend secret from your other friends, and it could get really embarrassing if your friend has a loose tongue and tells others at school you masturbate with him.

4) Masturbating with each other could escalate to more advanced sexual activity.

5) This could be something that could cause you to question your own sexuality, and one of you could develop a sexual attraction for the other while the other may not reciprocate such feelings.

6) Your parents or your friend's parents could find out about what you both are doing, and they may not approve of such conduct.


Just be careful if you approach a friends about masturbating together as sexuality is a powerful thing and can unleash very strong emotions.

[optimashprime]

ive done it and t is realy fun

[nick]

I dont think its wrong, but you might regret it if you try to force a situation.Tread carefully

[Stark]

Well, like gerontius said, don't force the situation, and I also think that maybe you should set out some rules with your friend(s) so it doesn't ruin the friendship.

[newfiee 13]

I think it's totaly fine as long as you are both ok with it. And to be honest I realy want to masturbate with a friend and even have him mAsturbate me but no one will do it with me

[adam1995]

i've been jo'ing with the same friend for a while now. niether of us are gay, we just like to jo together. i just turned 14 and he's 13 and we've been doing this for about a year.

[mybody]

maybe when you were 11 or 12 it would have been ok at that age to masturbate at each other it would have been fun thing to do. I did it when i was 12 at my schoolhouse. so now do you still want to do it. the only way is to ask him .

[lolboi06]

yeah i agree with them. its ok but u have to be careful cuz it might ruin the friendship

[Hollywood]

its not wrong as long as your friend or friends wamt to do it too, but forcing them is sorta like rape, so yeah, only if your friends actually want to, after that, everything should be okay, as long as you have a good friendship with them of course :)

[iCookie Jar]

Yea, so long as they're up to it. Me and my friends do every weekend, it's like a social gathering of about 15 of us. We've even converted my old garage into a den thinggy for when they all come over. sometimes we have little contests to see who can shoot furthest ans who lasts longest (not all the time)

I admit that it started out a little weird, but over time it's become second nature.

[YourFriend]

I think it's not wrong....

A little experimanting won't do any harm.

Invite your friend to your house and watch some porn and then say that you can't endure the horny-ness and that you have to go j/o and then go to the bathroom and tell him that he is welcome to join you.

If he doesn't come, then don't say anything about it unless he does.

Hope I'v been helpful.

[bigpp101]

I do it with my friend all the time and we are stronger friends now.

[BirdsandtheBees]

I have before but it didnt work out. PM me if you want all the details.

Long story short: We agreed to, watched porn together, I started, he chickened out and just watched me. Not what I was hoping for.

if you do want to try, make sure its a friend who a) wont tell anyone and b) actually do it with you. And I'd suggest not letting your parents find out.