what do i do?

[beachlover]

okay so one of my best friends its total making me mad latley. she hasn't been the same ever snice she started dating her current bf. i tell her things all the time and she just doesn't listen. most the time she intrpurts me to talk about her bf. i told her how i was feeling about it and she comptley blew up at me. i have at least three of my other friends who agree with me that i try to tell her stuff and she just doesn't listen. i don't think we had an actual convo in awhile.

she has also been talking about me behind my back and makin rude comment about me, to my face.

she also telling me who i should and shouldnt go out with. when i don't even like anyone when she brings it up.

i don't know if i want to be her friend or not, but she told her mom whats been going on and her says that she needs me as a friend.

any adivce?

[Skittle Flavored]

A friend is someone who's there for you, and supports you. Now that street goes both ways. If she's not supporting you, and making things easy for you, then its a problem. But alot of times, its because something is wrong when people are critical. I personally believe you need to sit her down, and let her know how she is being perceived by others now. Try not to mention her boyfriend though, because it seems that got you in trouble last time around. And if that doesnt work, maybe a friend break is necessary.

[byee]

Friends are first and foremost supposed to be FUN. If you can work out the problems you're having, great. But, if she's so self absorbed right now that she cannot tolerate hearing your concerns, then you might want to distance yourself from her, at least until she gets her priorities straight.