i dont know wat to do!

[timmy z]

i really need help! im 16 and have barely gone throught puberty. I have some pubes and no pit or facial hair! all the kids in my class are like 5 10 and im only 5 6. they sometimes make fun of my voice cause its not as low as theirs! what can i do about my voice!!?? the thing im most worried about is in the summer when i go to the beach everyone will have pithair and i wont! they r gonna make a big deal out of it and i dont know what to do! help! also when i j/o its like clear and only a little bit comes out.

[Pixie Princess]

Well there isn't really anything you can do besides wait.

[justme21]

wow and i thought im short compared to most of my friends but yet i do have a kinda of deep voice compared to them

[NeverTooLate]

u cant do nothing but wait

[Bigboy1]

when you go to beach say you shave them

[Clawhammer]

No, don't lie. You should fight fire with fire. Or just wear a shirt.

[Skeln]

Yeah, just act cool and wait it out. Alot of people shave their pit hair, so it's no big deal if you don't have any. Others will just get the impression that you shave so no worries.

[pontiacdriver]

i really need help! im 16 and have barely gone throught puberty. I have some pubes and no pit or facial hair! all the kids in my class are like 5 10 and im only 5 6. they sometimes make fun of my voice cause its not as low as theirs! what can i do about my voice!!?? the thing im most worried about is in the summer when i go to the beach everyone will have pithair and i wont! they r gonna make a big deal out of it and i dont know what to do! help! also when i j/o its like clear and only a little bit comes out.

You just sound like a late bloomer to me, but you are actually not bad off, in my opinion anyway. Basically, as the others have said you pretty much have to wait. What I would add to that statement is that let us be reasonable here about the following:

Height

Your height is pretty normal for someone of your age, and you are definitely not a pgymy by any stretch of the imagination. You are only 4 inches shorter than some of your friends, and that really is not a whole lot of distance really. You are going to catch up fast as you seem to be gearing up for some changes, and you really are not in a bad position for height at all.

Voice

I know it is really hard about the voice situation, but the fact remains that there are a lot of guys who don't get their adult pitch until they are close to 18. Even if your voice is really high it is only going to be temporary. You need to come up with some good come backs if folks rip on you because short of them being God their bodies or voices are not going to be perfect either. We all have our issues during puberty, and if someone is ripping on you for your voice, then their acne, excessive hair, or anything else is fair game at that point.

Hair

You can take it or leave it, but body hair is a real pain. Be happy you don't have to deal with it as body hair just makes for more maintenance. The reality is the hairless look is really in fashion nowadays for guys, and a lot of guys shave their pits. Trust me, you won't be the only guy on the beach with not pit hair as a lot of folks shave their pits especially body builders and athletes. No one is really going to notice your armpits, to be frank, and the only person who is going to really notice them is you. If anyone notices you don't have much body hair, then they will assume you are an athlete or just shave which many guys do anyway.

Semen

Have you just started ejaculating recently? It takes a while for guys to produce adult semen when they first start ejaculating, and there is up to a 6-7 month delay between a boy's first ejaculation and actually producing white semen. If you have only started masturbating and ejaculating recently, then give yourself more time. Even for us guys who have been ejaculating for a while we still shoot clear and watery semen especially if one is not particularly aroused. Your situation is normal, and just give yourself more time.



Basically, you are fine, and don't worry about anything. Have confidence in yourself as you will make it through puberty all right.

[Stevo 69]

Just relax and play the waiting game. Nothing you can do, you're just a "late bloomer" as we like to call it, basically you are a late developer. Don't worry!

[irishguy913]

maybe ur just a late bloomer. all u can do is wait

[Spunky]

Your just a late bloomer. Honestly their is nothing you can really do. But when you go to the beach I would say try to keep your arms down or if your friends bring it up just ignore them or I you feel ok lying then say you shave them. And when you j/o it's normal if you are at an early stage give it a while and you should start getting it more whiter. Oh and for your voice umm I would have to say just let that one go or just try to purposly make it deeper but I really wouldn't recomend that.