I have girl problems... (I'm Gay)

[Dave]

Well, i was afraid to say this, in public, so here it goes on internet...

1. I cannot be-friend girls, it's like i f i had some kind of childhood trauma, because when i was little, the rule always was "boys play with boys, and girls play with girls), so i waited until middle school so we can be friends, but i discovered i was gay, and having a "childish mind" makes me not want to have a bond with a girl, so... i don't to be racist, but to tell the truth, all my friends are boys, and i'm afraid of hurt a gril feelings by telling her i don't want to be her friend... So please, help me!

[byee]

David, regardless of your sexuality, you can still be friends! Girls are first and foremost just people. So, eventhough you're gay, there still might be some room for non sexual friends.

[Dave]

No, i don't mean i cannot have have sexual friends, most of my friends are non-sexual or something related, it's just that, sadly, i can't accept girls as friends... but i don't why, and also, i don't want to be this way!

[ShatteredWings]

So?

Even if you're gay, that doesn't mean you can't have male friends.

I'm always akward around guys, even ones that i have NO interest in [which..is most of them...]

Do you want to befriend some girls? then be nice :)

[clr9823]

Girls won't bite (until later on... Ill stop now ;)). However, on a serious note, if you don't act on this now, it could create some big problems later on in life. What if you fall in love with a girl, but you won't let your self ask her out, or even befriend her? Or, how about if one of your colleagues at work is a woman, and you have to get along with her?

Guys and Girls can be friends without any "relationship" at all. And, if I'm honest, limiting who you are friends with because of something as childish as gender, is childish and will seriously harm your progress in adult life.

[Dave]

Ok, i am starting to have some girl friends now, but only with the ones that like the same things i like, and i keep evading other girls around...so i still feel bad about it!

[NeverTooLate]

i'm gay and i have a few friends that r girls

[confusedboy]

I'm opposite.... I'm gay, can't have guy friends but have girl friends.

[Neverender]

I'm opposite.... I'm gay, can't have guy friends but have girl friends.

indeed, because as strange as this world is, it seems that most girls love gay guys (not sexually now, but they love having a gay person as a friend) unless they're one of those really homophobe religious girls.

[kily]

i'm gay and i have a few friends that r girls

[YourFriend]

i'm gay and i have a few friends that r girls

Yea me 2 i am gay.

[Truth]

Being gay affects your freindships? I'd think you werent gay then, because it should'nt. Your most likely just confused and shy, not gay.

[Dave]

I know i'm gay, i like mens in many ways, and i don't like womans, so, you see my problem? I am gay, but i can't make girl friends...