rossafc92
March 27th, 2009, 03:47 AM
A little while back I posted a topic on a girl that I really liked, and was infact in love with. (Link here: http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=37701) *Recommend you read that topic before continuing here*
The main problem was that she was one of my best friends, and I really wasn't sure if she liked me back or not. Anyway, since that last topic was posted, my feelings for her got even stronger, to the point where she was the only person I could think about. That was extremely difficult for me, considering she was meant to be one of best friends. Also since then, I've told one of her friends (who is also one of mine) about how I feel about her. He thought I should ask her out - I wasn't so sure.
My problem now is that I don't think I feel the same about her, because I think she really likes my best friend (who is also friends with her, we're all in a big group of friends). It all started last Wednesday (the 18th of March), she seemed to be with him all the time: at school; at after school classes etc. Since then I've also noticed she's been talking about him a lot in a very 'friendly' way (me and my other friends have always thought she had a soft spot for him, but this was the first time I truely noticed it). I've got to admit, this has made me feel like absolute sh*t. Especially since I thought she was beginning to like me in the way that I like her. She was flirting with me; telling me more personal things etc (which in a sense she still is doing!).
Now, I'm not sure my best friend likes her in the same way she likes him. I mean, they're good friends, but I just don't think he sees her in the same light as she does to him and that I do to her.
So there it is. The girl I love (not so sure I do anymore, although in a sense I like to think I am - dunno why) likes my best friend. Gutting to say the least. Or - because she was still flirting with me up until that Wednesday (or so I thought) and I think she still may be - is she just keeping her options open? What do I do? Do I just wait and see what happens? Do I move on? What do I do if she and my friend get together (that would kill me)? Am I still in love with her? Is it natural to feel this way when you're in a situation like mines?
Sorry for all the questions, but help would be very much appreciated.
The main problem was that she was one of my best friends, and I really wasn't sure if she liked me back or not. Anyway, since that last topic was posted, my feelings for her got even stronger, to the point where she was the only person I could think about. That was extremely difficult for me, considering she was meant to be one of best friends. Also since then, I've told one of her friends (who is also one of mine) about how I feel about her. He thought I should ask her out - I wasn't so sure.
My problem now is that I don't think I feel the same about her, because I think she really likes my best friend (who is also friends with her, we're all in a big group of friends). It all started last Wednesday (the 18th of March), she seemed to be with him all the time: at school; at after school classes etc. Since then I've also noticed she's been talking about him a lot in a very 'friendly' way (me and my other friends have always thought she had a soft spot for him, but this was the first time I truely noticed it). I've got to admit, this has made me feel like absolute sh*t. Especially since I thought she was beginning to like me in the way that I like her. She was flirting with me; telling me more personal things etc (which in a sense she still is doing!).
Now, I'm not sure my best friend likes her in the same way she likes him. I mean, they're good friends, but I just don't think he sees her in the same light as she does to him and that I do to her.
So there it is. The girl I love (not so sure I do anymore, although in a sense I like to think I am - dunno why) likes my best friend. Gutting to say the least. Or - because she was still flirting with me up until that Wednesday (or so I thought) and I think she still may be - is she just keeping her options open? What do I do? Do I just wait and see what happens? Do I move on? What do I do if she and my friend get together (that would kill me)? Am I still in love with her? Is it natural to feel this way when you're in a situation like mines?
Sorry for all the questions, but help would be very much appreciated.