help me end the "addiction" please

[mexa]

so...today i masturbated twice to porn, gay porn -.-. I dont know why but every time i have the chance even if my whole family is here i watch porn. Well i usually do when im at my bros pc cause thats where i got my own profile so i feel more "secure" in this pc. Sometimes i masturbate while my family is here i end up cumming in my pants and once i cummed in my pants and ran for the bathroom but i left the porn page wide open for everyone to see :(, lucky me no one came into the bedroom but thats exactly what i want to stop, stop watching porn...any kind i just dont want anymore but each friggin time i sit in this computer i do...i spose that one solution is to stop using the computers for the rest of my life or telling my parents...HAH telling my parents, they'd kill me at that instant. So if i try not using the computer i cant, im alone in the mornings monday thru friday and yes i go to school ( still saying...diff in mexico than USA) and i cant live without the computer, i use myspace, msn and blah blah blah way too often that it's become an addiction too -.- not a bad one though, i just like being communicated with my friends...AAAAANYWAY i need your help guys, any advices or links to programs that block the pages i select or something, almost anything will be usefull to me.

thanks to all in advance
P.S. sorry if its too explicit of some sort.

[DrkZ90]

well, the best advice I can give you is find something else to do... talk with people over MSN, get some free or buy some games on Steam and similar plattforms, etc....

Also if you want to block the stuff, what about the Windows Live Parental Control?

If you need help or advice or just want to chat, you could add me too n.n

[george]

What you really should do is get yourself occupied and just make yourself busy so that you don't even think about watching porn. When your on your computer, try listening to music or talking to your friends. If your not on your computer and get the urge to watch porn, just try doing some homework, reading a book, or watching some TV or a movie, just anything to get your mind off of anything sexual.

If you are using Internet Explorer and want to block specific pages then you can do:
Tools > Internet Options > Security > Restricted Sites > Sites > and then just add the sites.

[Aneklusmos]

well if didn't want to give up porn completely you could try getting some magazines....they are a lot easier to hide. otherwise maybe you could find a hobby or something

[byee]

You cannot become 'addicted' to porn or masturbation.

Masturbation is caused by biology, the sex drive. It's a biological urge that's wired into us. Masturbation results from the sex drive. It reduces sexual tension, which is also biological. You cannot turn off your sexual desires in much the same way you cannot prevent eye blinks or sweating.

Porn is arousing b/c i'ts sexual. So, seeing sex activates the sexual urge, creating sexual tension, which left alone is uncomfortable. Remember the little airplanes with the rubber band that powers the propeller? Looking at porn is like twirling the propeller and tightening the band. it needs to be released, and when it is, it's rather powerful, all that stored up tension. Same thing with porn and masturbation.

I think the task here is to be the master of your sexuality, not it's servant. So, that means showing some self control and good judgement and acknowledging that it's there to be used and enjoyed, but under your terms (like after all your other rresponsibilities are taken care of, and when you're alone and have privacy, etc.). If you're being 'responsible' about it, then there's no problem with it. If it's getting in the way, then adjust your life accordingly. There's no need for guilt, or anything drastic like throwing the PC out, maybe just limit what you view and when, or maybe choose to not look at porn at all and use your imagination.

[Muffins]

What you really should do is get yourself occupied and just make yourself busy so that you don't even think about watching porn. When your on your computer, try listening to music or talking to your friends. If your not on your computer and get the urge to watch porn, just try doing some homework, reading a book, or watching some TV or a movie, just anything to get your mind off of anything sexual.

If you are using Internet Explorer and want to block specific pages then you can do:
Tools > Internet Options > Security > Restricted Sites > Sites > and then just add the sites.

Or add parental control. Which would block most of the bad sites...but sometimes good sites get blocked to but u can just unblock them.