AnimeLover1991
March 25th, 2009, 07:12 PM
I'm wondering why the world is against me. My dreams of going to Michigan have been officialy killed as my dad's moving here to Florida what am I going to do? I feel like comitting suicide because of all the pain and drama I deal with everyday. Up in Michigan I had alot of friends who care about me, here in Florida (Where I currently reside) I have nobody, everyone picks on me because I'm gay and overweight, so I really don't know what to do
byee
March 25th, 2009, 10:37 PM
The short answer is: Deal with the disappointment. Yeah, I know easier said than done, I suppose that's what makes it the short answer though. I think you;re feeling too bad right now about the loss to realize that you can duplicate what you had. it's not about geography, it's about your abilities, but right now you might be too sad to see that.
Part of being a kid is that you often don't have a whole lot of control over some very major life events, like divorce, or moves, etc. So, you have to hope for the best, but prepare for the worst. And in your case, thatmeans dealing with the loss, and then preparing yourself for the work ahead. If you did it in Mich, you can do it in Fla., you're the same person, afterall.
Take some time to acknowldge the loss, and then try to move on and make your situation in Fla. as good as the one you had in Mich., it will take more time and energy, but you can do it. Staying in touch with your people in Mich. will help, too, but realize missing them doesn't mean you cannot duolicate it, it actually means that you can do it, the skills are yours to use.
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