is she mad or what.

[justme21]

well my girlfriend and me havnt had a conversation a little over a week ago she wont anwser my calls,ever time i see her she looks away and walks away and she responed once when i came right behind her i asked her if she was mad at me she said no then i started asking her friends if they knew if she was mad at me and they she isnt so what is going on i dont get it.

[byee]

Ask her! But, ask her an open ended question, like "You're not talking with me or answering my calls, why is that?.

What you need is info here, best gotten by making an observation about her behavior, and then asking her to clarify what it means, why she's doing it. You're assuming she' 'mad' at you, when there could be a lot of other reasons for her behavior. A 'yes' or 'no' to that question doesn't get to the real reason, unless you get lucky and happen to ask the right 'yes' or 'no' question in the first place.

[justme21]

ok i want to ask her in person but evertime she sees me she just walks away from me

[byee]

If that's the case, then regardless if she's 'mad' at you or not, her feelings don't sound too positive, so maybe you have to leave this one alone.

Sometimes you get an answer and can talk it thru, sometimes not. This might be one of those unfortunate times when you have to accept it without an explanation or talk.

[justme21]

well i just finished texting her she says she not mad at me its something else but she dont want to tell me and i want to find out what it is but i dont want to pressure her into to saying something she dont want to say so what could that something else be

[devilishangel]

she wants u to kinda keep on asking..sort of pampering her

[justme21]

iv texted her like 6 times and she only answers about 2-3 of them and just like simple things

[byee]

It sounds like you really need to back off here. There's a fine line between concern and harrassment, you're clearly more concerned about your feeling rejected than whatever it is she's dealing with. Continuing to bother her to find out what's wrong will in all probability result in her actually becoming 'mad' at you and rejecting you! When she's ready to tell you or otherwise reengage with you, she will.

[Beautiful Obsession]

im presuming ur still in school right?

well maybe after lesson or something wait behind for her. or when u see her run up to her and just start talking to her. if she ignores u just ask her why? if she still dont talk to you after saying nothings wrong then maybe theres something going on at home.

inoo its hard but maybe shes gone off u??
sorry that sounds harsh but i dunno??
xxx

[justme21]

never mid she just broke up with me so i guess she doesnt like me no more