Experimenting went a bit too far.

[wavey]

Hey all, this is hella embarrasing.
me and my friend have been curious and he ended up sucking me off. now i dunno if hes clean and what could i have cought? my mom knows i am not active as in getting out and geting laid as i am still a virgin. now i cannot go to the doctoprs without my mom knowing and shell get curious about it.

what can i catch off oral? him giving it to me.

[zebrainatree]

You cant catch anything from he giving you oral, you can only give something to him if you are infected in the first place.

Tip for most people: Wen you get older, i would just somehow, dependng on how easy it is to talk to your parents, ask if there is any history you should be worried abiut, try and make it into a joke or something, ythey shoudl tell you, expecaly as you get older and try new things.

But dont worry, experimenting is nothing to be ashamed off, if you dont feel right about what happened, either talk to him or let time heal it, time is the greatest heeler in these situations. but in short no you cant catch anything :D

[Stevo 69]

Right, sorry but i'm not sure which STI's you can cath from oral.

Go to the doctors it's easy to do without a parent knowing, go down there and ask to make an appointment, they'll give you an appropriate time and date - if you feel they might tell a parent, they wont! It's doctor-patient confidentiality.

[wavey]

so there is no chance i have anything?

[Sceneboy612]

I know that you can get herpes from oral... but other than that i dont think that there is anything

[wavey]

ive googled it all, i can get HIV, Gonarea, Syphillis and Herpes.

All of which are curable via antibiotics except the HIV. which i doubt he has, he claimed to have been checked twice a month but idk:P

[Sceneboy612]

herpes cannot be "cured", the outbreaks can only be hidden but they will stay with you forever. [ i did a project on this]. and if he says that he was checked then it is fine unless he is lying

[wavey]

so is it only herpes that i can catch since he sucked me off?

[Sceneboy612]

oh no, that is the only one on your list that i know cannot be cured, you can still catch them

[wavey]

so what can i catch when he sucked me off??

[The Batman]

Why don't you ask him if he has an STD? Whatever he has you can catch.

[wavey]

he claims he doesnt have one although he is said to be the slut of the town where he live with all the lasses. but he gets checked out. i thorugh there was only certain things you can catch off oral

[pontiacdriver]

Hey all, this is hella embarrasing.
me and my friend have been curious and he ended up sucking me off. now i dunno if hes clean and what could i have cought? my mom knows i am not active as in getting out and geting laid as i am still a virgin. now i cannot go to the doctoprs without my mom knowing and shell get curious about it.

what can i catch off oral? him giving it to me.


One can get definitely diseases from oral sex, and there is no question that one has to be careful before doing it. My guess is that you are all right, and you should wait a couple of weeks before getting worried. If you start noticing sores in your mouth, a chronic throat infection, or puss developing in your mouth, then there is a chance you could have contracted something. However, if your friend's mouth is otherwise clean and he does not have those symptoms, then you should be all right. Don't make a mountain out of a mole hill, and don't freak out about something that does not exist.

In the future use this as a learning experience to be careful with your body and with others. Sure, we all get horny and that makes us get curious and want to make us want to do things. However, you should control your sexuality and let it control you. Especially with this friend being someone who has a reputation of having relations with a lot of people that is the last person with whom you should be doing anything sexual unlike a fellow virgin.

Clearly, if you have a problem, then you have to seek medical attention. However, we can talk about that if the need is there, and I am going to guess that you are fine for now.

Again, be responsible with your body and sexuality, and don't do things with folks unless you know they are clean.

[byee]

Wavey, there are things you can catch from oral, but I'll go on a limb here since I know you, and say that given your age, and his probable age, and the probable circumstance, that it's probably OK. Not necessarily a good idea, mind you, but on a one time basis, you probably didn't catch anything, unless you did this with someone who;s had a lot of different, and older, more experienced partners (all of which i doubt). But, if you can ask him, you should just to reassure yourself. Ask him if he has herpes, or cold sores.

However, if you continue this kind of unprotected sex, you increase the probability of catching something. Having an urge to do something, and then the availability, doesn't mean it's necessarily a good idea to do it.

You've satisfied your curiosity, now be more careful with who you get involved with, and take precautions.

[Elemental505]

idk the sti or std you can catch but go to your doctor and set up a appointment he wont tell your parents due to the H.I.P.P.A Guidelines so your safe

[Oblivion]

Wavey, there are things you can catch from oral, but I'll go on a limb here since I know you, and say that given your age, and his probable age, and the probable circumstance, that it's probably OK. Not necessarily a good idea, mind you, but on a one time basis, you probably didn't catch anything, unless you did this with someone who;s had a lot of different, and older, more experienced partners (all of which i doubt). But, if you can ask him, you should just to reassure yourself. Ask him if he has herpes, or cold sores.

However, if you continue this kind of unprotected sex, you increase the probability of catching something. Having an urge to do something, and then the availability, doesn't mean it's necessarily a good idea to do it.

You've satisfied your curiosity, now be more careful with who you get involved with, and take precautions.

I agree,
You're probably OK for now, but continuing unprotected random sex is dangerous.

But for future reference, you can get herpes, AIDS, hepatitis... Pretty much any STD/I that you can get from regular sex.

[Skeln]

Yes, as said above, you can get nearly any STD?I from oral sex. I strongly suggest you don't do this too often, heck I suggest you don't do this anymore. Their is the chance that he's lying to you and that he's transferred something to you. Next time you see your doctor you could ask him about it and he'll inform you more. Just tell him you have a private question to ask him and he'll most likely send youre parents out and, if you ask him, he shouldn't tell your parents about it.

[wavey]

lol tbh he has had alot of partners, hes known as a slut where he lives.. ive satisfied it and we have promised never to let ourselves do it again!

[nick]

hope you enjoyed it at the time! but take care for the future.

if you're at all worried there will probably be some sort of walk-in clinic at your local hospital which avoids having to see the family doctor. Of course it would be a bit embarassing if you met somebody you know there...