WHAT should I DO?

[~Dangerous MInd~]

Ok, well, I'm 14 almost 15 and i'm going out with a guy who is 8 years older than me. We really like eachother, and we seem to be perfect for eachother, but part of me thinks it's wrong. I'm confused... i wonder if he really likes me or if he's just taking advantage of me. I wonder if i should do *stuff* with him... or if i should just drop the relationship because he is way too old for me. I know if anyone found out he'd get in trouble, and every time i see him i have to sneak out or lie about where i'm going, but i really like him... but i'm extremely confused
any help?

[serial-thrilla]

if you stay with him theres a chance of him getting caught and possibly jailed. if you really like him your probably dont want that. however since you really like him you could stay with him. if you two connect then age doesent matter.

[TreKool]

aggreed......take care

[Ghost4591]

if he isn't pushing you to do stuff, and seems like he generally cares for u, dats ok, it only wen he starts pushing u 2, if so dump him

[r0x0row3nd]

hold on here hes 22?? ur 15 hmm.... well almost 15 right ? anyways
well this is odd .... i dont think its a good idea he could really fuck up his life if he goes to jail i mean he wouldnt be able to get a good bit of well paying jobs so do u want that for him? and u should think about by the time ur 18 and of legall age to have sex (most people dont care about it) hell be 25 so hes gonna be so u wont have as long of a life with him he will not considering any accidents of any type die a good while before u so usually if u were to have a marrige saying u did stay with him he would die ud still be partially young and then ud end up being really depressed for a year or 2 thats about how long it would take to recover and that would suck then again there would be some positives but this post is long enough so ill stop just think about it its ur life ur choice

[WelshLad]

If he's genuinely interested in you, then he could go without "doing stuff." Do what my friend did to be sure that she was getting the real deal. Make him wait a year to have sex with you (assuming that you want to as well). Tell him that and you'll find out if he does like you or if he's using you. 8 years is a big difference at this age. I'm not saying it's wrong but be careful eh.

[There_Goes_My_Life]

i am saying it's wrong... it's just... WRONG!

[r0x0row3nd]

i dont agree at all with you i think she can do it if she wants im not saying its wrong im saying its just ....(no offense) odd but she can do it if she wants to i think u should test him or think about wat might happen if u get caught in his or your situation?? think for the future not for the past remember that