Why Does Everyone Think Im Gay

[nehemeizcool]

Well, i have noticed lately that many people have been accusing me of being gay. I have no idea why. I don't think im gay; im attracted to girls and i have a girlfriend. Yet, people still think im gay. Does anyone have any ideas of why they may think this. like for example could it be the way i talk?? IDK Also does anyone have any solutions to this problem. Thanks :lol:

[HOLEinyoursoul]

Well, sometimes it just has to do with your social status. If you are lower on the totem poll then you will probably be called names a lot such as gay or fag. Ignore what they say. Since yer not gay what's the problem? They are only calling you gay cuz they wanna feel like they're on top and above you.

[iceyfresh]

could be ur clothes hairstile and voice thoes are comon things.

[HOLEinyoursoul]

yeah like i have an "emo" haircut so some people call me gay. but others the phuck out of my way cuz they know who i really am. Ima goth freak who does not care. I care about my girlfriend (first priority all the way cuz she's the best), music, and being happy. so just be strong. Use comebacks. Show them that ur not gay and that you deserve to be respected.

[Oblivion]

Moved to Teen Sexuality.

[Toasty]

Wow, I think the cruelty of today's society is really getting to people.

Now, I don't know, but in my school, "fag" and "gay" don't usually even mean homosexual. We use them as insults. I'll admit that I do it, too. But I need to quit, it really is mean, and I could end up hurting someone who doesn't get it. Anyway, it's usually nothing more than an insult, as to call someone stupid. For example... My friends love to steal my french fries, lol. An appropriate comeback when they do it would be, "You fag!" or "You're gay!" See?

To put it simply, "fag" or "gay" usually mean stupid and/or idiot. It really is terrible to discriminate against homosexuals like that, but oh well... Maybe the fad will wear out soon.

So... I don't think it's anything to worry about. People will be people, and I highly doubt they mean anything by it. Well, they probably mean to call you stupid, but you get it... XD But don't take that to heart. The guilty are suspicious, after all. Heh heh heh.

[Blofeld]

My big bro calls it me all the time just messing about even thought i don't like it.

Are you sure that messing about?

[byee]

Your voice wouldn't make you gay! Nor would anything else about you that others can see. Your sexuality is within you. It's not something that's on display, And unless your peers have X-Ray vision of some kind, then they can't tell, either.

The term "gay' these days is a cruel tease that people use not so much b/c they actually think you're gay, but it's a way of intentionally hurting someone's feelings. Take it for that, mean spititedness, and youll be OK. Don't go out of your way trying to understand what they're responding to, it's just cruelty.

[Cloud]

its just an insult people use it does get annoying when they use it as an insult but i doubt they think your gay there jsut trying to insult you is all

[Furby]

It's as simple as if your gay your gay, if your straight your straight.
No-one else can judge you only you can judge you can if anyone says different then there a moron or nieve.
Could it be possible they are gay and want you to be gay?
I had that expericance once and i think it's happening again.

[Oblivion]

The term "gay' these days is a cruel tease that people use not so much b/c they actually think you're gay, but it's a way of intentionally hurting someone's feelings. Take it for that, mean spititedness, and youll be OK. Don't go out of your way trying to understand what they're responding to, it's just cruelty.

Yep. Physical maturity has absolutely nothing to do with your sexual orientation.
Anyways, how would the other kids know any better about your sexual orientation than you yourself?

[RandomChick242]

Are you really touchy with other guys? That's one of the reasons people call me gay amd bi even before I knew I was bi and came out lol

[nick]

Are you an arty type of person rather than a sporty type of person, art/music = gay, sport = macho to the ignorant

[Stevo 69]

people can think you are gay for different reasons

-Clothing
-Voice
-Way you act

The main thing is as long you are happy and comfortable with your sexuality, are you bothered by it? If so tell them you aren't

[BeautifulSilence]

Please don't bump old threads. :locked:

Psst. Check the dates of the last few posts next time ;)