View Full Version : I just can't be bothered anymore.
Destiny&Desire
March 16th, 2009, 04:58 PM
I wake up in the morning, and nothing motivates me to get out of bed.
I go into school, and I don't work as hard as I could/I don't do homework, just because I can't see the point in doing it. I only do exams because I'm made to; I couldn't care less whether I have a future or not. I have no motivation.
I can't really say anything to defend myself here - my family think I'm lazy, but I don't know whether it's just that, or there's a real problem to do with me, or something.
I just can't be bothered to do the simplest of tasks - I'd rather sleep/do nothing. I don't see the point in anything.
Sorry, no idea why I'm posting this. I'm just fed up because I don't know what I want to do. I can't be bothered to get help. I can't be bothered to not get help. I just sit here like an idiot, I really don't see why life's worth living.
Hyper
March 17th, 2009, 06:45 AM
Yeah even though you can't be bothered.. Get help
Thats all I can say, thats just classical depression.
bevans
March 17th, 2009, 09:07 AM
You need to seek professional attention. You better do something to deal with this before it's too late... Good luck!
Destiny&Desire
March 17th, 2009, 11:27 AM
I've tried looking for help!
I told my mum once two years ago, and then again recently. And every time she has passed it off as me being upset because I have a really sh** time in school. I just don't know what to do now because she's so desperate to pass off my problems as something else. She thinks I'm being f***ing lazy.
I'm on the waiting list for some "advisory service", but because I'm not "urgent" or anything, it's gonna take a few months before I'm at the top of the list. I just can't wait a few months though; nothing's gonna get better in a few months.
I have exams in a few months, and I just don't care anymore =[. I don't know what to do with myself!
Beautiful Obsession
March 17th, 2009, 02:36 PM
u sound just like me:D
i can neva be bothered to do anything.. im just lazy!!
theres nothing wrong in that.. its natural as far as im concerned!!
i never want to get out of bed.. i like my sleep? so do you?
i dont see a problem with that.. dont worry theres nothing
wrong with you. you just dont see life to its full potential ?
xx
Destiny&Desire
March 17th, 2009, 02:39 PM
hmmm... maybe
it's just that this "laziness" is stopping me from leaving my house, getting out of bed, doing important work...
very "extreme" laziness.. somehow =s =p
sugarbaby
April 22nd, 2009, 01:49 PM
Why dont you plan trips out with friends, as something to look forward to?
Everyone hates exams and school, but if you plan things outside of school, the days get shorter and you end up having loads of fun!
Triceratops
April 23rd, 2009, 11:35 AM
I'm sorry to hear that you have to wait months before you get help.
And in all fairness to you, your mum doesn't exactly help the situation either. She needs to understand you more and acknowledge what you are telling her.
In the mean time, your exams are coming up and you need to study. I have to really force myself to study as I can never be bothered with them, and loads of other people have to push themselves to do it as well, so I suggest you force yourself to study regularly too. You may feel like you don't care now, but if a bad grade comes out of the exam, it will feel horrible later on.
Also, you might want to see friends more often to cheer you up. Maybe plan some fun stuff with them.
Hope all turns out well. :)
cool person
April 23rd, 2009, 11:44 PM
To me, it sounds like you are suffering from a text book case of depression. I really suggest you seek proffessional help. If I'm reading what you are saying correctly, your mom isn't belieivng you when you talk to her and she is saying your basically making an excuse for your lazyness.
It is really important that you keep trying to get through to her, no matter what you have to say or DO.
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