im confused

[bat822]

well my friend and i were hanging out in my basement. so we started to wrestle then we started to hump each other with are clothes on. Im just confused.

[Ladysman]

Well I think wat ur trying to get at is r u gay well it's like masturbating with a friend it doesn't mean ur gay ur curious

[nick]

Well you need to ask yourself whether you liked it? Did you get horny? Did it make you want to do more? None of these things would necessarily mean you're gay, its common for gays to fool around a bit (although humping is a bit gay to be honest)

Question is, are you hoping for an opportunity to play a bit more? You need to work out what your response will be if he makes any attempt or approach to do anything else. If you're relaxed about it why not go for it, but if you're not just be ready to say so.

[Lifeguard18]

U could be curious.

[Skeln]

Yeah, you could be curious. Alos, sometimes it's a joke thing. People do it all the time at my school. Kind of like a friendly joke thing. But if you feel some sort of affection for your firend then your probably either gay or straight. But it's usually until later years when you decide your sexuality. Just try not to take it too far if this continues. Could ruin the relationship.

[george]

Like everyone said before, did you enjoy it? If you did, you could just be curious since a lot of guys are curious during puberty but that sense of curiosity usually goes away once you get out of puberty.

You shouldn't really worry about whether or not your bisexual or gay or just curious and relax, there are a lot of other things to worry about during puberty and sexuality really shouldn't be something you have to worry about until farther into it.

[aid821]

just abit of harmless fun, sometimes we just get caught up the moment. it's all good