anyone else?

[tiny]

hey all, ive jus started puberty and jus started at a new school. anyway ive started lookin at the other girls differently(i guess i mean im attracted to them now) i started masterbating a few weeks ago and now find myself looking at lesbians s i can orgasm. is this just me or is it normal? please help

[gotquestions44]

well im straight (i think). i mean ive hooked up with girls but whatever. ya its normal i guess. like do u mean lesbians having sex and stuff. because i watch lesbian porn when i masterbate and it is easier for me to orgasm than watching straight porn

[Eclipse]

I feel the same way but I know it’s only because you hit puberty, so generally anything turns you which means you’re perfectly fine. You’re not lesbian until you feel more than sexual attraction towards girls. You have to feel emotion and make sure it’s not just a phase.

[tiny]

well ive nver really found boys attractive, jus never thought id feel like this bout girls. im havin felis bout my friend but dont wanna ruin our relationship. wot can i do?

[BeautifulSilence]

Does it really matter? Being attracted to girls is just as "normal" as being attracted to boys.

Everyone will be attracted to someone of the same AND opposite sex at least once [each] during their life. So, why choose a sexuality? Especially when you're very likely to change soon...

Puberty is a time of sexual maturity and by the end of it, your hormones will settle down and you'll find it easier to put yourself in a category... If that's what you want.

I say, don't worry about it. If you find yourself with the possibility of having something special with someone, regardless of gender, go for it. None of this "I can't like him / her because I'm gay / straight."

In my opinion, sexuality is bullshit. Love has nothing to do with genders, so why restrict yourself. I believe that -if we had to be categorized- we are all bisexual. We just need the right person to bring out the gay / straight side of us.

[tiny]

thank you, that has really helped. i feel ready t say sumthin t my friend now. is it too soon?

[BeautifulSilence]

I wouldn't suggest telling your friend. I'm in love with my friend and I know how it can change things.

Unless she makes a hint or advance, you'd be best keeping it to yourself. These might be false feelings from closeness and encouraged by hormones. You may discover that you don't actually feel the same way about her after however long. It could damagae your friendship.

You may however, want to suggest that you have feelings for girls. Usually, a reaction can tell you instictively whether or not she has similar feelings for you.

[tiny]

thank you so much! i wont rush in t anythin, but i will hint, and see how she reacts. thanks agen

[tiny]

i did it! she feels the same and was tryin t tell me!!! we kissed for ages and decided not to tell anyone, but t take things slowly. thanks t everyone for their help

[tailor67]

yea some times i get it, its perfectly normal

[Mrred]

It really doesn't matter it's your preference. I have slot of friends that are girls and straight that look at lesbian porn.

[Oblivion]

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