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longrooster
March 16th, 2009, 12:49 AM
im 17 and havin gf issues. yea im a guy

so ive been datin my GF for 6 months yesterday ... and not more then a month and a half ago i found out she kissed my best friend, she claimed it was an accident (she was drunk he walked her home she thought it was me and kissed him). nothin else happened,
now today i found out that a week after she kissed him she went on to datin him for a week or two while still datin me... i love her i know i do i would do anything for her but i dont know if i should stay with her considering i cant even fucking trust her ... but i know i would love to spend the rest of my life with her ... but i dont know if i should trust her, i did pros and cons lists and got more pros then cons, and i cant imagine myself without her but i dont know if stayin with her even if she cheats on me is a smart thing to do ...
thanks

Gumleaf
March 16th, 2009, 03:13 AM
ok, moving girls p101 >>> relationships & dating


mate, i appreciate that you really love her, but it is clear that she has issues with being trustworthy. that is only going to cause you more hurt if this relationship continues. now, everyone makes mistakes, and things happen sometimes. but if this becomes a trend like it is here, its only going to cause you more pain mate. i think you need to figure out in yourself whether the risk of possible continuous hurt is better for you then trying to move on and find someone who will not only love you but be faithful to you too.

Beautiful Obsession
March 17th, 2009, 01:14 PM
shes cheating on you? sorry i know you love her but you dont cheat on somebody you love so i wud get rid. if someone were cheating on me i cudnt say with them?
how about talk to ur bm and sort it out wiv him? your obv a nice guy and shes takin advantage? speak to her and say i love you but its me or him? if she carrys on cheating on you but sorry its time to move on. if you love someone you dont hurt them like that

Good Luck (:
xx

devilishangel
March 21st, 2009, 07:56 AM
umm...she kissed him...wen she ws drunk..k..agreed...dat can happen...it can b excused...saying dat she ws thinking of u wen she did it[:)]

bt....y did she date him....for a week or so????

n i guess u said...u haf been dating her for say 6 months nw..so wen she dated ur best frnd...it ws already 5 months into ur realationship...so y ws she giving him a chance[:O]

kinda..its a litle wierd isnt it?????[:(]

y dont u talk dis out wid her...dat look dats wat i got to kno...n tell me wat u did...n y u did..i mean...der shud b a reason....y kinda date som1 wen u alredy into sum oder relationship????

its like...she sort of doesnt respect ur relationship wid her dat much[:(]
sory if it hurt[:(]
bt jst talk it out...den u can kinda sort it...better...

Christheman
January 28th, 2012, 08:07 AM
Sorry bro shes untrustworthy and at that point you are gonna have to find someone lime you

xXl0sth0peXx
January 28th, 2012, 10:52 AM
Please do not bump threads! This one is over 2 years old! :locked: