i need some opinions...

[longrooster]

im 17 and havin gf issues.

so ive been datin my GF for 6 months yesterday ... and not more then a month and a half ago i found out she kissed my best friend, she claimed it was an accident (she was drunk he walked her home she thought it was me and kissed him). nothin else happened,
now today i found out that a week after she kissed him she went on to datin him for a week or two while still datin me... i love her i know i do i would do anything for her but i dont know if i should stay with her considering i cant even fucking trust her ... but i know i would love to spend the rest of my life with her ... but i dont know if i should trust her, i did pros and cons lists and got more pros then cons, and i cant imagine myself without her but i dont know if stayin with her even if she cheats on me is a smart thing to do ...
thanks

[aid821]

Hey mate, i don't think this is in the right section and will most prob be moved, but from reading your post it sounds like you may be taking this relationship abit too serious. It sounds as though your more into her than she is into you. by the sounds of things you have really strong feelings for her, but unfortunately i don't think she feels the same.

I'd suggest you have a bit of a cooling off period and tell her how you feel. Tell her if she still has feelings for you and that you're going to have a break and that she needs to think about where her feelings lie (with him or you). that way the ball is in her court and she has to make the decision. If she is still unsure after this period, i hate to say it, but i think you should end it only because you would just be hurt more.

good luck with it all ;)

[Requin]

Please do not post the same one twice, it's not allowed. :locked: