Generally Unhappy.

[Archos]

Like the title says, I'm unhappy. Basically:
-I feel incredibly fat. My friends constantly say I'm not, but this just annoys me because it's how I see myself through MY eyes.
-I feel so butt ugly. I mean to the point where I am paranoid that people look at me funny for it.
-I feel useless and like I can't even do anything right to do with myself.

So yeah..

[Dragonite]

well have you tried positive self talk?

[Viral Death]

Like the other post you should think positive if not you should talk to you parents or doctor

[byee]

It's good that you can identify that you're unhappy, b/c that's probably at the root of your problem here. When you're unhappy, nothing seems satisfactory, so it's not surprising that you'd find your appearance unsatisfactory. Regardless of what your friends say, b/c it's not just about your outside (your weight), it's about the inside (your happiness), which only you can see. Address that part, and you're likely to feel better about the outside.

Sometimes, when it feels a little too monumental, telling someone who can get you to a therapist is a good step. Consider it if you cannot resolve your underlying unhappiness on your own.

[bevans]

Look on the bright side of life. Be happy and contented with what you have, with who you are. By being yourself, I'm sure a lot of people will like you.

[Strength]

Like the title says, I'm unhappy. Basically:
-I feel incredibly fat. My friends constantly say I'm not, but this just annoys me because it's how I see myself through MY eyes.
-I feel so butt ugly. I mean to the point where I am paranoid that people look at me funny for it.
-I feel useless and like I can't even do anything right to do with myself.

So yeah..


Everyone feels inadequate in some way mate.

But I'm honest and I tell it like it is. Judging by your picture your none of those :)

[Requin]

Hi Archos!

Well as Sam has pointed out, at least you know what your problem is. I'm sure that everyone feels unhappy at some point in their life, but I know that doesn't help you...but it's true.

A warning as well: You'll get lots of replies here saying that your not fat/ugly etc...and you won't take it in because your friends have said this and why should you believe us over them? Well it's true, we are NOT lying or 'blowing smoke up your ass' - to quote Sam.

Not everyone has sunny blossomed youthfull looks, sadly. Remember this: (this is a bit corny mind) true beauty is on the inside. As I said it is rather corny but it's true, if you go out tommorow to school and think on the positive side of things. Don't care about what others think or do, be you, you are you and no one else can judge or do anything about it. So stuff them if they look at you funny.

I got funny looks as well, but that's just young kids really, they do seem to stare at things they don't understand (so mature elder children is one thing they do not understand).
So I'm saying, just try and be positive about stuff, be nice to people, and they should be nice to you, and you will feel better. Believe me.
This sounds a lot like me when I was 13 ish. I didn't think I was fat mind, but the general opinion of me. But one day I just said fuck them all! And I've become who I am now. :)

I hope this helped, or made sense.