View Full Version : what av i dun.. need advice
Beautiful Obsession
March 15th, 2009, 02:57 PM
i hav just cut myself 7 times :confused:
i was in da bath.. and dont ask me why..
i was feeling like shit.. and i grabbed da razer
and just started cutting.. i have loads of blood going
down my legs now and i dont even feel better. i just feel
like cutting again.. i think i have got myself in some trouble.
please help
x
Squisheee
March 15th, 2009, 04:14 PM
Why ? I used to cut because it was an easy fix .. because something sharp was always there .. cutting was adictting .. when i was pissed off i didnt feel the pain all I felt was relief .. then i'd clean my mess .. pull down my sleves and walk away .. Bare un-cut arms dont look normal to me anymore .. but once all my sharp objects where taken away what more could I really do .. 8 months no cutting sure I've thought about it but .. Im not one that likes to waste timee ..
Kaleidoscope Eyes
March 15th, 2009, 04:19 PM
The key sentence there, I think, is "I don't even feel better." If it didn't help, why do it again? That's one of the big issues with cutting: it can provide a temporary endorphin rush, your body's natural response to the pain, but it doesn't stick around long-term and doesn't help.
You've just started this, so now is the best time to stop, before it goes on any longer. Just remember how much it didn't help, and try doing something else to get rid of your stress. Find a hobby, try writing or drawing (don't tell me you're not good at it, you can better at anything with a little practice). Do you play an instrument? Music can be great for that, too. Take the time to find a more constructive release--it's worth it.
byee
March 15th, 2009, 11:01 PM
Hollie, you're most probably cutting yourself b/c of the recent abuse.
GO TELL YOUR FOLKS NOW! Get some help, the sooner you tell them, the sooner they can take care of you!
GO!
bevans
March 17th, 2009, 08:52 AM
You need to stop cutting yourself while it's not yet late. Keep yourself busy so that you will forget the urges of doing it. Go out with your friends, try a new hobby, play your favorite sport.... There are a lot of things you can do to divert your attention from harming yourself.
Beautiful Obsession
March 17th, 2009, 01:47 PM
The thing is i cant stop doing it, even at skwl im sitting in class just wishin i had my razor wiv me, im sitting there scratching my hand..
life just seems so empty atm..
i cant talk 2 anybody about it. i keep saying to myself im going to tell my b/m tomoz.. bt i just cant..
im really struggling to keep myself going..
x
byee
March 17th, 2009, 01:52 PM
Hollie, you're most probably cutting yourself b/c of the recent abuse.
GO TELL YOUR FOLKS NOW! Get some help, the sooner you tell them, the sooner they can take care of you!
GO!
Hollie! Do this, trust me, go tell someone, get some help! If you need to talk more, PM me.
Sam
Project Delta
March 25th, 2009, 03:27 PM
Trust us we know how you feel. You should try and seek help. I keep a sharp edge with me at school now. (only little) just to feel i have my own control. But its definitely not the way to go. So try and get some help and therefore get out of the habbit while its not too late!
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