How Do I Do This..

[Squisheee]

Okay so I'm Bi , I'm a girl .. I really like this girl .. she dosent know I'm Bi even though we are like BFFL .. I've only told like 2 people .. well I havent told her cause I have a crush on her .. Im not planning on telling her .. I wanna make my move .. We go to the park alot with some friends .. I wanna kiss her there ..
Can someone please help me .. And can you like tell me about your first experince to pleasee ? :whoops: .. and like how'd you come out to your friends ?







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:what: Im The Confused Kind On Your Door Step ..

[byee]

You know, it might not be the best idea to go to a park with someone you really don't know too well and try to kiss them unless you know first that they'll at least be receptive to it. Otherwise it could be rather awkward!

This isn't so much a sexual question, or a bi/gay question, it's really a basic relationship/friendship one. People often let their hormones and desires dictate their behavior, much to their later dissatisfaction. A little thought and self control often improves the outcome, however.

You might want to tolerate the urges a while longer and get to know this girl first, before making a move. People usually share pretty early on what there interests are (sexual and other), making it easier to determine where the relationship is likely to go, and what risks are involved.

[Squisheee]

((You know, it might not be the best idea to go to a park with someone you really don't know too well and try to kiss them unless you know first that they'll at least be receptive to it. Otherwise it could be rather awkward!))


I've known her and talk to her for 2years everyday the from the day she came to or school .. I know her .. Its a park we go to everyday .. x) , shes not a random person .. im not one of those girls you see on DATELINE ABC :what:

((You know, it might not be the best idea to go to a park with someone you really don't know too well and try to kiss them unless you know first that they'll at least be receptive to it. Otherwise it could be rather awkward!))


I've known her and talk to her for 2years everyday the from the day she came to or school .. I know her .. Its a park we go to everyday .. x) , shes not a random person .. im not one of those girls you see on DATELINE ABC :what: [/QUOTE]

Please don't double post. Just use the edit button.
Thanks, Shattered.

[byee]

I got that part, that you know her, but you do not "know" her, right? That's the part that makes it awkward. Get to 'Know' her and you have a better chance of avoiding a very awkward situation, or losing your friend.

[Squisheee]

So , do I tell her Im bi ? , or kinda hint it to her ? :what: What do you mean by "know her" .. Be more clear , Im kinda sloww :P

[byee]

Oh, sorry for not being clear enough! There are a lot of ways to do this, but I think the smoothest/least risky way is to say nothing but listen to her and talk with her and see what she says, esp. when the topic inevitably gets to guys and dating and sex and all. It's pretty easy to figure out what somebody's views are on these topics once they get into it. Based on that, you can determine if it's safe to make your move and share with her your interest in her.