question I don't know where to put...

[paniclove]

I'm worried about something... see a month ago (valentines day, haha) my bf and I were messing around, if you know what I mean, and we used a djsjjsishCONDOMhskdjskdn (sorry I find this so awkward to type) but he came so fast an I wanted to do "it" again so we used another new ... you know "thingie" ... and he wasn't as hsjkshaHARDhsjbsk so idk if some may have leaked out or something and I'm super scared I'm pregnant. like I'm on the pill and I did get my period but ever since my sex ed teacher told the class you can still be preggo and have your period I've been freaking out (he made us watch fifteen and pregnant). and I'd totally ask him about the situation but he knows my bf and I just think it would be weird. and another thing with this, it was a hsshsksbskSPERMICIDALhskjskdbk thingy and after the second time it hurt so damn bad like I couldn't even sit down. actually, it hurts when we do anything. is that normal? I'm fifteen and lost my jskshskVIRGINITYjskdkd in september. so idk.


edit: omg the title sounds weird now. I meant like idk where to ask the question... yeah sorry. I always have my mind in the gutter so even I took my thread title the wrong way. (;

[Spitfire18397]

I think you boyfriend is probably just as scared as you. And idk why it always hurts

[paniclove]

alex! this is a girls only thingyyy. so go away. (: I thought maybe someone was actually answering my question!

[DarkWingedAngel]

ok one thing
you said you used a condom right?
well if you did you wouldn't be pregnant unless it broke and even if it did brake the pill would most likely make it so you don't get pregnant


the pain might just be something as simple as a cut or tare down there
i know that has happened to me before
if it is a cut it should go away if you do nothing to make it worse
if it still hurts in like 2 or 3 weeks i would get it checked out just in case

[Cloud]

He may be too hard or be going in too deep for you so therefore causing pain for you so just see if hell be gentler next time and not to go in too deep if u do it again.
and as desi said the condom should stop it nad if that fails (unlikely) then the pill will almost definately stop you from becoming pregnant

[paniclove]

okay thanks guys. I've been totally panicing for like the past month. haha.

[byee]

If you're on the Pill and taking it consistently, it's about 99% effective, so the chances of you being pregnant are pretty low.

Sex isn't supposed to hurt, to if it does, either he's too aggressive or you're too nervous and tensing up and/or you're not properly aroused, which would create wetness and therefore lube. Also, if you're young, you might be small, which would cause pain, also.


It's unfortunate the educators in your school substitute fear and so called 'moral teaching' for basic info. Your situation, and the fears and concerns you have, conclusively demonstrate the failure of such an approach.

[paniclove]

sometimes I think my shdskdbeHYMENhkdhis keeps like growing back and breaking again? we don't do it a lot. so is that possible?

haha my teachers always say they aren't telling us this stuff to scare us, that it's just the truth, but I wish they would explain it more. the chick infront of me in my class thinks she pregnant now too.

[byee]

Your hymen cannot grow back. It's a very thin membrane anyway, so in most active girls, it breaks b/f first intercourse anyway.

There was a study here in the USA that was recently concluded which showed that teen pregnancy rates were lowest in states that had an inclusive, completely scientificaly based sex ed course work, as opposed to the absurd 'abstinence only' courses.

Perhaps your teacher would be receptive to some direct questions, maybe submitted anonymously?

[paniclove]

alright then. somethings gotta be tearing though because I always bleed after we make love. and it always burns to take a piss after he hsshskbFINGERShdkdhd me. lol I'll type piss but I can't type... yeah... anyway

my middle school teacher only taugh us abstinence. and like sex is bad, but now in high school sex is okay and like I haven't heard abstinence once. and he did say we could write him notes that he would answer in class, no name needed. it's just like he won't talk about anything except for how the baby grows and what all of the stds look like. haha which doesn't help me, nor anyone.

[byee]

You're not supposed to bleed afterwards. There's too mjch friction, either you're too young (sorry), or he's too old for you (sorry), or he's too rough, or you're not wet enough. But, consistent bleeding isn't a good sign, until you figure it out it might be best to wait. Is there a family planning clinic near you? Who put you on the Pill?

[paniclove]

oh. idk. I'm 15 and he's turning 15 in a couple months. and I don't know of one. I went to my moms doctor and she put me on the pill to regulate everything because I had my period for like a straight month and a half.

[Viral Death]

I think you will be ok just hang in there. I know that you will not be a mommy!

[Strength]

Pregnant have your period? Nope sorry your teacher is wrong there.

[paniclove]

haha. well guess what everyone. I was talking to my mom about it (I talk to her about everything) and she told me that the reason why the nurse had me piss in the cup before my tonsilectomy, was because they had to give me a preganacy test! and if I was pregnant, I wouldn't have gotten my tonsils out. I'M SAFE! (: lol.