Suspicious much?

[Prettisweet626]

So I used to like this guy and I haven't talked to him in about 2 years.He told me he didn't like me like that and I was like ok.That was when we stopped talking basically.So now he is trying to become friends with my best friend.So he goes up to her (when im not around) and he was like i know you from somewhere.He couldn't possibly know her from anywhere because she just moved to our area.So then he proceeds to ask her if she went to our middle school (which she didnt).So then he was like ok and he walks away.This is the funny part though;he comes back with this big smile on his face and asked her if she was hung out with me and my other friend,Rissa.She said yea they are my friends.So he is like thats where i know you from.She asks him why he wants to know this and he was like just wondering.So i was thinking he was just trying to find an excuse to talk to her.

Then on another day her asks her if she is friends with me again and then he says hi to her and then he started asking her if she had friends in her homeroom.She was like yea i have a couple in there and he was like is cc (me)in your homeroom?I'm not in her homeroom by the way but then he was like are you moving next year?she replied no and before she could finish he was like are any of your friends moving next year?she said no and he was like none of them?She said no none of them are moving.He was smiling the whole time.Whats even more weird is he doesn't care about her;he cares about her "friends".

I don't know if i'm crazy or if this boy is up to something.I just find this whole thing very odd and I would swear he doesn't even know her name...

[IAMWILL]

hmmmmmmmm....... (slowly stroking his chin)......

Well there could be a few things happening here:
1) He's new to the school, this girl caught his eye, and he wants to become friends. He's a little over-eager and excited, but that's normal, he just has a lot of energy
2) He's one of those people that likes to know everything about everyone, and is a little nosy.
3) He wants to get to know this girl and her friends so he can go out with her, and get someone possible from his old town who lives near, to get jealous and back together with him (In other words, he wants to use this girl).

Now all of these are just simple theories, and to be honest, it's hard to tell which one he could be. It might even be something totally different, but I don't know because I'm not in your shoes. The fact that he smiles all the time either means he likes this girl, or he has a lot of energy. Observe him. See how he is like when he is not around this girl or friends. Maybe get to know him and hang out with him. You should be able to figure out soon what he is up to, if anything, so just keep a close eye on him, and keep us updated. ;)

[byee]

Well, I think you might be a bit jealous b/c this guy who turned you down a while back is putting the moves on your friend? Maybe you'd like it to be you?

We don't know what his motives might be (although he sounds like a pretty smooth operator here), and really, that's not your concern, it would be your friends. If you want someone to be attracted to you, try sending out some signals of your own, maybe even taking a lesson from him, and approach someone with the same routine.

[Prettisweet626]

Well, I think you might be a bit jealous b/c this guy who turned you down a while back is putting the moves on your friend? Maybe you'd like it to be you?

We don't know what his motives might be (although he sounds like a pretty smooth operator here), and really, that's not your concern, it would be your friends. If you want someone to be attracted to you, try sending out some signals of your own, maybe even taking a lesson from him, and approach someone with the same routine.

The funny thing is she is with her BOYFRIEND when he stops to talk to her.

[byee]

Yeah, he's a real operator! Maybe there's something about that, that he doesn't seem to play by (or even respect) the 'rules' that rankles you.

[IAMWILL]

Ok, ya, he's definetly testing you.

Sounds pretty much like to me that he is trying to see where you are going to "explode" and yell at him. Once that happens, he will go to the girl and say something like "name, I don't think your safe around this guy, maybe you should stick with me for awhile." or some bullshit like that. To be honest, you could sit him down and try to talk to him about it, but knowing this guy as he seems, you gotta fight right back and play his game. Ignore him, be nice, but don't give in to ANYTHING. This boy craves attention, and he wants it from you. If you ignore him, and pretend not to care about him and this girl, it takes the fun out of what he's doing and he will stop. Trust me, i've been in these types of situations.

[Prettisweet626]

Ok, ya, he's definetly testing you.

Sounds pretty much like to me that he is trying to see where you are going to "explode" and yell at him. Once that happens, he will go to the girl and say something like "name, I don't think your safe around this guy, maybe you should stick with me for awhile." or some bullshit like that. To be honest, you could sit him down and try to talk to him about it, but knowing this guy as he seems, you gotta fight right back and play his game. Ignore him, be nice, but don't give in to ANYTHING. This boy craves attention, and he wants it from you. If you ignore him, and pretend not to care about him and this girl, it takes the fun out of what he's doing and he will stop. Trust me, i've been in these types of situations.

we haven't talked in a LONG time though so i was surprised he even remembered my name but i talked to my friend today and she was basically telling me he always brings me into the conversation somehow and he always cuts her off to ask about her "friends" and im her best friend so i don't know.
I just have to wait and see what he will pop up with next....

[Beautiful Obsession]

well maybe he likes your friend?
you sed u used to like him? meaning you dont anymore?
well if he does like your friend u shudnt stand it the way?
u sed shes new to the skwl so wen u did like him she didnt no you?

or maybe he's using your friend to get wiv you?
in this case ur friend mite actually like him so i would
advice u wudnt get wiv him?
always choose mates before boys?
yu mte hav got this whole ting wrong and maybe he does
just wanna be m8s wiv her?
i hav loads of boy m8s and i dont think theres anything wrong wiv it?

x

[devilishangel]

i jst think dat dis guy is intrested in making frnds wid ur frnd...n hes trying to find a way to u kno..b a frnd...so he ws using his "ways" :P
n he myt b keping an eye on her..as he seems to b finding a common ground...to talk abt...n den he myt haf seen u wid her...so hes kinda using ur name to talk...
jst chilax..kz..u kno...it ws long tym u liked him...tell ur self u haf moved out of him..n u dont care[:)]...let him do watever...he dus..
n i think tell ur frnd dat u no more talk to him..bt u wer once aquinted to him[:)]
dat way u wud b held responisble of being d so called"link" he uses :P to make frnds wid her

[Beautiful Obsession]

any news?