my gf

[RaGe]

:? yea so i have a girl friend who cuts herself ... what should i do ... i mean ive told her to stop but she only stop's doing it for that day...and then later on she will do it again . :cry:

[Chrono]

Well my advice is to make a promise that you'll give up something bad for you it she stops cutting herself, not promising it'll work but if it does then you got rid of a bad habit for yourself and she stops cutting too. Cutting it a very hard habit to stop though, how long has she been doing it?

[Whisper]

Well my advice is to make a promise that you'll give up something bad for you it she stops cutting herself, not promising it'll work but if it does then you got rid of a bad habit for yourself and she stops cutting too. Cutting it a very hard habit to stop though, how long has she been doing it?

trust me that won't work

[*-tick tock-*]

have her call u when she feels the need...

how i stopped is i was talking to my boyfriend about it and he was asking about the cuts and i just told him not to worry about it... he goes...well ok then but if u see anything on my arms...or u see me get hurt in any way.. i dont want YOU to worry about it.. right then i snapped. it was hard..but i did it

[RaGe]

i think your's might work beacuse she is obsessed with mew beeing happy and weelll .s o ....... :shock:

[Anonymous]

You need to threaten youll tell someone if she cuts wrong one day and accidently gets her vein shes gone so if you care youll do something like tell someone or threaten to leave her or threaten to do something that will effect her
Ps No abuse or suicde or murder involved

[Cpt.Fuzzle]

PostPosted: Wed Feb 09, 2005 4:47 pm Post subject:
You need to threaten youll tell someone if she cuts wrong one day and accidently gets her vein shes gone so if you care youll do something like tell someone or threaten to leave her or threaten to do something that will effect her
Ps No abuse or suicde or murder involved not smart, my g/f and i both cut she loves me alot and i stopped cutting we did the promise if i cut she dumps me, but if i tell someone, she'll be dead that night, shes tried suicide before.. all im saying is u threaten she'll either cut more, feel alone and unable to trust him or jus say forget it and die right there...

[Anonymous]

Ur right

[Anonymous]

im tryin to think what i would do in that situation but im at a loss

[RaGe]

:? i dunno tho she just wants me to be hapyp is what she says and like i try to stop it its just that she wont tell me n e more cuz i do try to stop it ............. :( i dunno .....

[TwistedMind]

leave, her alone she knows wut feels good, cutting is fine..its part of puberty

[TwistedMind]

dont call me dumb u perv, i saw the message u posted me, im not into that stuff, leave me alone

[Julio caesar shavez the 4]

leave, her alone she knows wut feels good, cutting is fine..its part of puberty
Cutting has nothing to do with puberty, you are really dumb.
im backen u up on that 100%

[*-tick tock-*]

lol...thats sick with the dog but anyways...
i wouldnt recommend threatening but just telling her like what i posted earlier..she could snap outta it?

[RaGe]

:shock: ok..........then

[RaGe]

:shock: im sorry its sick if you think that cutting is normal

[RaGe]

well fuck all of this omg :cry: i am so pissed she sitting there cuitting and telling me she loves me nect thing i nmo shes cheating on me grr im never opeing up to someone again!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :cry: :cry: :cry:

[*-tick tock-*]

im terribly sorry :( you did what u could to try and make her stop... im sorry things didnt work out the way you wanted it to.. it happens to me too. i had this one guy..tell me he loved me and the next morning he asks this girl out... fuck him.. i just did things to get my mind off him now hes a person of the past.

[RaGe]

its fine at least someone cares,

[RaGe]

thanks ...... yay rancid :shock:

[Waiting]

change your avatar.
its too big

[RaGe]

fine .... :evil:

[RaGe]

all the pics i put up are bg tho

[RaGe]

and cmon this one is sexyyyy

[Whisper]

it's disgusting, it's to big and you just tripple posted!

[Chrono]

Wow, that almost made me piss myself a bit when i first saw it. Scary and large

[<-Dying_to_Live->]

its too damn big

[Anonymous]

Rage I like it. Manson is sexy.

[-Silence]

I like Manson and all, but umm..I like him with the clothes on. :? Can you please get a smaller picture so it doesnt distort everything?

[Anonymous]

Yea Although I love it you do need to re-size it. It messes everything up. To get back on topic though: I once cut a guys name in my stomach with a razor. :bigsmile:

[Anonymous]

No the first time I tried with scissors on my arm but then it didn't work so I did my chest. It was amazing. I still have the scar to view every day and think of him. :P

[Fancy Flamingo05]

I'm really sorry about that. What woould really help are these things...
1)first, pray
2)talk to her and help her
3)ask her why she does
4) hope :)