Confused

[Glasgow]

Well as some of you know. I have never been in a relationship before. I am 13. Lately I have been doing alot of thinking about this situiation and it's not really getting me anywhere. I don't know if I should should go out with girls yet. Most of the guys in my class have gone out, like pretty much all of them. I'm just kinda scared. So i guess what im asking is should I wait it out or take advantage of the situation before its too late?

[Kiros]

There's really nothing to be scared about, I mean, if you're feeling that way, then how do you think the girls feel? :P

You should go for it, so you'll have some experience, and plus, you might find a really nice girl that you like. :)

[Glasgow]

Well. there is this one girl that is trying to sorta seduce me, i guess. I know lot's of girls like me and i already sorta made a fool of myself my hid... I dont really wanna talk about it. anyways this girl it taking me through steps. I like her, and apparently she said i can trust her. I might give it a try later on. maybe the next time a girl asks me out. Who knows might be not for a while.

[Pink-Floyd]

One bad thing about some girls, not nececarly 13 year olds but 14(Sometimes) - up go out with u, thne after a while wants sex, And u may not be ready

[Glasgow]

One bad thing about some girls, not nececarly 13 year olds but 14(Sometimes) - up go out with u, thne after a while wants sex, And u may not be ready

Ya. I know girls that are getting knocked up now. Even last year. So your saying maybe I should go out now, and then stay single for a year maybe? Because I wont be ready yet.

[-Silence]

I think you should wait till you're well and ready.
There's no rush.

[Glasgow]

I think you should wait till you're well and ready.
There's no rush.

Okay well that was my original idea. so i guess thats what I should go with.

[DarkChick88]

Just follow your heart man...If you want to date then date...but if you don't..then don't worry about it...Don't let other people pressure you into doing things that you don't want to do or are not ready for yet...It's completely your choice, not theirs. You aren't stupid if you go against what they want you to do...It honestly just means that you are your own person...And that's a good thing! :wink:

[ScotsGirl]

I think you should wait till you're well and ready.
There's no rush.

I completely agree :D

:D
xxx

[TreKool]

Theres a first time for everything....you'll be glad you did go with someone and you'll have a smile on your face at the end of it (we hope!) Good luck.......

I know what it feels like to be the odd one out, dont think about it you have a right to be the way you want to be.

[Elokyn]

Yeah, I agree with Heather and Lynne. There's no rush. Wait until you're completely comfortable. Good luck :)