Why???

[bvc123q]

I masturbated with my friend and my dad some how found out and my friend was banned from my house for ever. He doesent know i know about sex and stuff and that im going though puberty. Any ways to get him to let me have that friend agin?
I dont think its wrong.

[Oblivion]

Please don't ask how to masturbate with friends-
5) The only sexual questions permitted, are sex-ed questions. Don't ask for techniques or ways to masturbate or have sex. Don't ask questions about how to masturbate with friends. In addition, do not post stories about sex or masturbation.

Since you also have another legitimate question, I'll keep this open, but I edited out the 'how-to'

[kniwtohynroh]

i might not think its wrong but your father thinks so
yes alot of teens masturbated with their friends so its "nature" for you but consider this, your father is trying to protect you.

[pontiacdriver]

I masturbated with my friend and my dad some how found out and my friend was banned from my house for ever. He doesent know i know about sex and stuff and that im going though puberty. Any ways to get him to let me have that friend agin?
I dont think its wrong.

The reality is that one of the biggest risks of jacking off with friends is that parents would find such activity objectionable resulting in your friend's ban. Clearly, your Father wants you to use your sexuality responsibly, and you and your friend have violated your Father's trust. There is not a whole lot you can do to get your Father to overturn the ban other than to prove to him that you can be responsible with your body. I think a big part of that is having a frank talk about sexuality with your Father and setting up rules on what you can and cannot do with others. Again, because you are in your Father's house he makes the rules for better or for worse, and you have to abide by them. However, perhaps there is a compromise that can be reached such as you and your friend not being alone and always being in a public place with your family being able to see you both. You might also have to promise to keep your body to yourself and not jack off with others. I am guessing your Father must have found out about what you had done from a third party, and the thing that probably made him go ballistic is that what you had done is known by other people and not just your Father, your friend, and you.

[marktheman]

I don't agree with your dad but that doesn't make any difference. I can't imagine having a friend banned from my house forever. What a bummer.
Are you allowed to go to his house? If you haven't been told no, maybe you could stop over there once in a while.

[irishdude695]

From what I see there are only two options:

1) You sit down with your dad and talk about sexuality and promise not to do anything like this again.

~or~

2) You just go over to your friends house instead.

I would probably do number one first, because you could get in a lot more trouble for doing it again at a friend's house. That kinda stinks that your dad's being like this.