sexual activities? lol help.

[hiyaimzach]

me and my girl have recently started to get into sexual activities...shes not a virgin and i am, before her i never kissed a girl :O im 16 btw :\. well ive fingered her a few times now and last time was at her house she unzipped my pants and was about to give me a bj but her parents got home. I was kind of relieved because as much as i want it to happen, im not sure if im ready. But i think to myself if i let it happen and get it over with, it will be alot less nerve racking and ill be able to enjoy it more in the future. should i wait? or just let her do it?

[Cloud]

well if its maknig you uncomfortable im usre she will understand so its up to you really but i would talk to her bout it

[Stevo 69]

It's entirely up to you, but if you feel you are not ready for that yet then tell her and she should understand.

[The Batman]

If you feel your not ready than don't do it. Sex isn't something you do just because it's available.

[justme21]

tell her that "i want to stay a virgin in all types of sex till im married."

[clr9823]

Although you should only ever do things is you are comfortable with them, she has let you finger her and she may find it rude/strange if you don't let her return the favour, so talk to her about it if you really don't want to do it, then she should understand.

[nick]

You need to decide for yourself what you want to do. It sounds as if you're a bit nervous, but if its something you feel ready for in other ways try to relax, dont be afraid to admit you're nervous, if she loves you she'll be kind

[byee]

"Get it over with" and "sex" usually aren't used in the same sentence!

When it is, it usually indicates that *someone* isnlt really ready, and therefore the chances of it working out and being pleasurable are lessened. That's because, cintrary to popular belief, it's that big one on your shoulders that's the real sex organ.

If you're involved in a serious relationship, you should be able to talk openly and difrectly with your partner about your concerns and feelings. By doing so, you clear the air and begin to address the underlying issues you have, thereby improving your chances of making that sexual experience a more satisfying one.

[mathew911]

Dont do it if you dont feel like it. If you are only nervous like everybody is on there first time and that is the only reason holding you back, then do it with her.