View Full Version : I think I'm in love
Eclipse
March 11th, 2009, 11:42 PM
Well me and my friend have been working on a science project, and I've been riding the bus home with her, and this cute guy rides her bus. We both got sent outside one day along with another kid, and I felt so comfortable around him. Plus, I had a dream that he said that he loved me and I said yeah right and then he said he even had nasty thoughts about me (don't judge me please lol) so this has got me thinking lately, "Am I in love?"
IAMWILL
March 12th, 2009, 12:20 AM
Well this is a classic example of a crush, or puppy love, as some people call it. To he honest, I don't think you're in love, you just have a usual teenage crush. As for your dream, it's just hormones. Sadly, yet sometimes happily, dreams don't really mean anything, they're basically just reflections of what you saw, felt, and experienced over a given amount of time mixed in together with puberty.
BuryYourFlame
March 12th, 2009, 09:27 AM
Well this is a classic example of a crush, or puppy love, as some people call it. To he honest, I don't think you're in love, you just have a usual teenage crush. As for your dream, it's just hormones. Sadly, yet sometimes happily, dreams don't really mean anything, they're basically just reflections of what you saw, felt, and experienced over a given amount of time mixed in together with puberty.
i agree,
i dont think it is love, esp because you havent even been talking to the guy that often, unless you know someone's personality, i dont think you can have a meaningful relationship, and anything that does happen will just be physical
byee
March 12th, 2009, 12:26 PM
Only you know what you're feeling! It does sound like you like him, and if this is the first time you've felt that, it could seem like love. And if you think it is, so be it!
Whatever you call this, it is a strong positive signal, and you might further understand it by getting to know him better. Maybe spend sometime chatting or hanging out with him and see what develops. Feelings usally clarify themselves with time.
As you get more accustomed to *that* feeling, you'll be better able to determine what exactly it means, if it's love or not. However, these are just labels, what's important is that whatever you're feeling is real to you, and quite positiive. And, being a positive feeling means that there's something promising about him. How promising and what it means, only time will tell.
Archer600
March 12th, 2009, 09:51 PM
Yea ur not in love. I really don't think any teen actualy can be in love we just let our horomones control us. Love is someting we experience when we get older and we can think with a clear mind
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