Idk what i am!!!!!!!!!!!!

[AlwaysConfused]

Idk what i am. I am so confused i love grls but i have feelings for bois too. There is this boi that was in my gym class and i felt like i liked him and had sex dreams bout him and saw him with his shirt off. he is on the football team track team and hes cool. He's always staring at me and i occasionally stare at him but we hardly know each other. I see him in high school halways sometimes and i get hard and last nite (half asleep half awake) i saw him laying beside me. Help me

[nick]

only you can really know what you feel inside about boys & girls. it may just be raging hormones causing you to get horny in all sorts of ways, then again there may be more to it than that. to be honest it sounds as if you may be bi, I have exactly the same feelings that you've described and I'm sure I'm bi. anyway try not to worry and don't jump to any conclusions. most people are some where on a sliding scale between 100% straight at one end and 100% gay at the other, its just that some people are near the end of the scale and others, like me, are nearer the middle.

all the best

[Clawhammer]

I agree, I think it's just the hormones. No worries, it should go away soon. Try to restrain from anything rash, in the mean time.

[Sceneboy612]

only you can really know what you feel inside about boys & girls. it may just be raging hormones causing you to get horny in all sorts of ways, then again there may be more to it than that. to be honest it sounds as if you may be bi, I have exactly the same feelings that you've described and I'm sure I'm bi. anyway try not to worry and don't jump to any conclusions. most people are some where on a sliding scale between 100% straight at one end and 100% gay at the other, its just that some people are near the end of the scale and others, like me, are nearer the middle.

all the best

I agree with him, it does sounds like you are bi. i have had dreams like that with one of my friends, and i am bi. But the reason i think you are bi, is because of your emotional feelings towards him.

[clr9823]

Stop trying to classify yourself, and just go with the flo. Only when you finish puberty will you accurately be able to assess what your orientation is. If you really want to know, I think you are bi-curious:
"Bi-curious is a term used to refer to someone who does not identify as bisexual or homosexual but feels or shows some curiosity in a relationship or sexual activity with someone of the same sex. ... The term bi-curious implies that the individual has had no sexual experience—or very little—of that sort, but may continue to self-identify as bi-curious if they do not feel they have adequately explored these feelings, or if they do not wish to identify as bisexual." - Wikipedia on Bi-Curious.
Hope that helps.