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Truth
March 11th, 2009, 12:54 AM
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Requin
March 11th, 2009, 11:12 AM
Moving to Boys Puberty...
I expect you feeling like this because you have views or have been told that masturbating is wrong etc.
I mean think about it logically, why else would you feel dirty and mainly guilty about it.
It could also be the sudden change of doing this, almost like a culture shock, maybe over time you'll get used to it. But if your uncomfortable about doing it then don't.
You don't have to masturbate.
byee
March 11th, 2009, 11:56 AM
Everyone masturbates, it's perfectly normal. However, no one talks about it, so it can feel 'wrong', or forbidden. And, it does involve a bit of a mess.
My bet is that you're probably new to all this, and it takes time to get used to the new feelings and the newness of the way your body reacts and what it does. With time, comes acceptance.
mathew911
March 11th, 2009, 02:34 PM
Many people feel wrong about masterbation. If you do donīt do it. If you donīt there is nothing wrong with jacking.
pontiacdriver
March 11th, 2009, 08:04 PM
Why do I feel like masturbation is dirty? I even try not to do it, or just not let cum touch me at all. I know it's not wrong, I just find it.. dirty? I even feel dirty after i've taken a shower, used soap, etc. =/
Many of us were like you when we first started out masturbating, and your feelings are not unusual at all. The issue is not whether or not you cum on yourself but rather that in many societies sexuality is viewed as taboo and something that is not to be discussed. As a result, anything related to sex is viewed as "dirty" or "forbidden" which causes your feelings. As long as you are maintaining good hygiene by washing up after masturbating, then you are far from dirty, and you have nothing about which to worry.
marktheman
March 12th, 2009, 02:47 PM
I don't think it's dirty at all. From the very first time I did it, I thought it was the greatest thing I ever did. You must have learned that from parents or friends talking about it. Some parents would make their kids think its dirty to stop them from doing it.
Almost everybody does it. If you really don't like it because you really think it's dirty, then don't do it. Otherwise just do it anyway and as you get used to it, you might not think it's so dirty. I do it 3 times a day and I don't have any problem.
Strength
March 17th, 2009, 09:27 AM
Why do I feel like masturbation is dirty? I even try not to do it, or just not let cum touch me at all. I know it's not wrong, I just find it.. dirty? I even feel dirty after i've taken a shower, used soap, etc. =/
I feel similar to you on masturbation
ezduzit323
March 17th, 2009, 01:09 PM
when i first started masturbating i felt guilty afterwards. i told myself i'd never do it again but i kept on doing it anyway. eventually the guilt goes away and you just enjoy your orgasms and your special time with yourself.
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