Had a bad dream and now i think im obsessed

[Lady_Chaos]

I went to sleep with plesant thoughts about my boyfriend and then woke up and cried uncontrollably for two hours. I had had a bad dream. In that dream my bf broke up with me and then he and his dad were killed. I love both of them dearly and I was onviously very up set. I didn't understand why I was crying untill the next morning. I then realised that I had convinced myself that he really had broken up with me. But he hadn't... So,what I'm wondering is whether or not Iam obsessed or not. I think I am, and if I cried over him breaking up with me in a dream, what is going to happen if he actually does break up with me?

The reason I ask is because all of my friends think its funny and that really hurts me.... I need help... Badly....

[byee]

Thankfully, it was just a dream.

I think your dream reflects how deeply you care aboiut your b/f and his dad, it's sort of a confirmation of reality. For whatever reason, though, with that recognition comes a vulnerability to loss. Maybe it has something to do with some event in your life, maybe not, maybe it's just a fear of losing something you need. But whatever that might come from, you might want to remind yourself that things are going well for you right now with him and that the dream doesn't reflect any imminient loss. So enjoy!

[triplethreat40]

this has happened to me a few times. I dbouted my sanity for a while, but all is well. It's not really a big deal. This just shows how much you care for your boyfriend.

[ILOVEYOU]

looks like you really love your BF. dont worry, its a bad dream, but we know bad dreams are good in real life. dont worry, you just Love him. tell him what you saw.

[Lady_Chaos]

I did and he sympathized with me =)

Okay, so now another problem as occurred....

1. we haven't gone out in a LONG time. like a month. (we've been dating for a lil over 3 months)
2. He's started to get obsessed with World of Warcraft (a game we both LOVE)
3. He'd rather play WoW than go out with me.
4. My dad caught us making out downstairs when we had his rentals over for dinner
5. I think he's scared of what might happen
6. We got into a REALLY BIG fight today
7. I dont know what to do
8. he thinks that we should go back to the way we were before, like when we first started dating

Do you think his solution is good? Do you think that is a good idea?

[ILOVEYOU]

well, thats a good idea, stating again. yeah, try it :)

[Archer600]

Well I'm guessing u should go back to normal and if u can't break up it's really that simple.

[Beautiful Obsession]

it was just a dream?
it doesnt mean hes going to dump u?
it dont mean anything? i have evry weird dreams!!
dont let it get to you?
hav u had the same dream since?
i would just forget about it and enjoy having a bf

xx

[devilishangel]

its ur subconsious mind...d part of ur mind which switches on...wen u sleep...n it thinks realy randomly..collecting all d days work[wateve u myt b thinking feeling or been undergoing]..sort of..
in d sense...like u myt b thinking hw much u love ur bf...n u cnt live widout..
n den at sum ppoint,..during d day u myt haf seen or read somthng abt an accident...or seen sumthng on tv,,and it affected ur mind so much...

den while dreaming...wen ur subconsious mind comes into play..u haf des two thoughts mixed togedr n u c d dream...

so jst chilax....nthng to worry abt dear[:)]

i mean..dis is sumthng wch my biology teachr once explained me abt[:)]