Yesterday at Basketball practice...

[weebananas]

Yeasterday at practice, I was showering in the locker room. There's this reaaaally hot guy with a reeeally nice body right next to me. We were both late, so we were rushing. Well, I saw him looking at me, and he was getting a boner. He looked really embarrased and kept rushing. I was like " I know you're looking at me, it's okay haha" Then he was all like thanks man and we did a little handshake. He still had a boner, and well I got one lol.

I'm not gonna continue... you know where that was headed right? haha. Anyway, I felt kind of bad after it happened because a little while before i had sex with my friend and we were cool for a little while after, but then we just got really distant. I'm afraid that's gonna happen again. :(

[itsjustguy]

Its normal for people.I think its called curious.Dont sweat it man.

[Gabriel Y.]

Well though I cannot say I know exactly what happened next, I can assume... If you really do like him, then go for it! A way to make sure you dont grow distant is to talk to him and make sure that if you guys get 2gether, you will remain friends even if you split up. Just make sure you guys actually like each other before goin any further ;)

[Antares]

I don't really believe this because if you were rushing for time, why would you decide to have a sex session???

And if he was really your friend, then your conversation wouldn't have been like that. You portrayed him as an absolute stranger.

So...if this was true, thats what happens to friendships when you add sex to the mix.
Not much you can do now.

[wavey]

soundsl ike a movie or a porn movie. not a real life situation. upi shake hands or w.e but just becuase u both have boners dun mean u have sex. ;|

[Sceneboy612]

i dont know what kind of sport you were doing, but if you were rushing, why would you do anything sexual with someone who you dont really know that well, and if you were in a locker room, someone would deff walk in... there is nothing secretive about public showers... ok im done with that now.

And if you dont want to lose your friend, just dont let him drift away. I have lost friends for the same reasons, and yes its bad, but all you have to do is not avoid him. if you like him, more than a friend, try to find out if he likes you too. but if things get ackward, there is nothing that i know of that you can do

[irishdude695]

I guess i could have happened but if this story is untrue, from now on please just don't post fake things.

Well if you like him, you guys should hang out and get to know each other and see if you would make a good couple.That's probably what i would do.

But find out if he is bi, gay or straight in a nice polite way so you don't freak him out if what happened in the shower was just a one time deal.

[byee]

Two guys in a shower with boners don't mean much of anything, don't jump to conclusions! Get some more data here, get to know him, and see what comes up (no pun intended). People usually talk pretty soon about themselves and their interests and it's pretty easy to figure out what their sexuality is. Take the extra time to do this, it will save you a lot of potential grief later on!

[doktored]

I don't really believe this because if you were rushing for time, why would you decide to have a sex session???

And if he was really your friend, then your conversation wouldn't have been like that. You portrayed him as an absolute stranger.

So...if this was true, thats what happens to friendships when you add sex to the mix.
Not much you can do now.

Now that is some serious quick wits you have there jupiter!

[weebananas]

I'm sorry if it sounded like that, and it didn't last all that long.

Also, we didn't have full on sex-- We felt on eachothers body and I sucked his dick, but it only lasted 5-10 minutes. Sory about that!

Also, we weren't really best friends, but we talked and we were cool with eachother.

[Sceneboy612]

ok, that makes more sence then... and if thats the case, always have something to talk about and dont get ackward, and you should be fine, but if you want to do something with him again, it might make your friendship better, but he also might think that you like him... because i dont know if either of you are bi, or gay, or if you are just curious.

But if he is gay or bi, and he thinks that you are, it could become more than physical for him, and one of you could really get emotionally hurt, and if that happens, it will never end good for anyone.