Harder than asking out a girl

[shadow_moses]

As if asking a girl out isn't hard enough, how do you go about asking out another guy as a highschool student not trying to misinterpret someone and getting the stereotype attached to your name that you're bi?

[Mzor203]

Um, I'm confused here. If you're asking out a guy, and you're a guy yourself, doesn't that mean that you feel yourself to be gay or bi? If two guys are oing out people are going to think you're gay or bi no matter what...

[shadow_moses]

you dont necessarily have to be real open with it if you don't want others to know. cause i'd rather not have everyone know if i were to get a boyfriend rather than just people say i've been spending a lot of time with another guy.

[Mzor203]

Well, by asking any boy out, you are taking the risk that people are going to find out that you have, especially if the guy is less trustworthy than you think. But if you do, and it goes well, you can just ask him to keep it a secret, and avoi doing things when you guys are in school.

It's really hard not to have other people know about these things, and a big part of it relies on your partner, so there's not a whole ton you can do other than just to do things while no one else is around.

[byee]

Well, you first make very sure that your guy is open to this! And to do that, you might need to befriend him and just get to know him first, people usually share what their sexuality is as you get to know them. Get to know him, and see if he's open, then it will be easier to ask.

[Halibut]

before asking out any guy i think you need to accpe tyour bi or gay..because like it or not your going to get that steriotype...

[Oblivion]

If you aren't ready to admit you are gay/bi, is it really wise to have a boyfriend?
But if you really want to, get to know the guy first. Edge around talking about sexuality, etc. and maybe open up to him.