Confusing

[Tommie]

hello umm
im 13 and i still havent had a wet dream :/
or anything like that
i dont think its normal.?
when can i expect one
i have started puberty.
ive got some attributes from stages two and three.
Help!
TomTom (satnav)

[Requin]

You only get wet dreams if you haven't masturbated in a while, and if you can produce enough semen.
If you are in the early stages of puberty, and you are, as your only 13. Then you probably won't be able to have a wet dream. But as I said, if you masturbate then you won't get one.

And at 13 puberty is different for everyone, there's so much range and variation. So don't worry your only in the early part, long way to go yet.

[Tommie]

But the thing is alot of my friends have "Ejaculated" and some are younger than me
its very frustrating.

[Requin]

It's development I'm afraid. Some people develop at different rates and time. AND remember, they may say they have ejaculated, but their boys, and they don't always tell the truth. (Not saying that girls don't lie of course)

Not many people younger than 13 can actually ejaculate properly. So I doubt that all of them are telling the complete truth. And the frustration thing, sorry but that's life. And I bet their lying.

[Tommie]

Ok thanks
But one last question.
when do you rekon I will be able to "stroke the salami"
but with a reward
and thanks again

[Mzor203]

Ok thanks
But one last question.
when do you rekon I will be able to "stroke the salami"
but with a reward
and thanks again

You'll be able to ejaculate when your body begins producing semen. When will this be? No one is going to be able to tell you. It differes for every person, sometimes it comes quickly, other times you might have to wait a year. A lot of it is based on genetics, so it really depends. Patience is key. :)

[Tommie]

Thanks :)

[Tommie]

Sorry to be so annoying. ( i just have lots of questions)
My mum and dad have a theory that ill have my "growth spurt" near the summer.
im led to believe that means sexually active.
is my dad speaking from experience.
maybe thats when he had his spurt?

[southieRy94]

growth spurts r usually during puberty and I think happen rite b4 u are able 2 ejaculate. But u still mite not go on the same scheduele as it dad did. But I'm not sure, hope that helps a little cuz that's wat happened w/ me

[nick]

You've just got to be patient, there's nothing you can do to force the pace. I doubt if you'll be waiting too long.

[khaos14]

yeah, some people actually never have a wet dream. :/ puberty is an individual thing and can be hard to predict.

[Mzor203]

Sorry to be so annoying. ( i just have lots of questions)
My mum and dad have a theory that ill have my "growth spurt" near the summer.
im led to believe that means sexually active.
is my dad speaking from experience.
maybe thats when he had his spurt?

Some people do have growth spurts, other people don't have growth spurts. When they say 'growth spurt', they don't mean sexually active, what they mean is that you'll get taller, in a very short amount of time. It's hard to predict growth spurts then, you can't say 'I think it'll be around summer,' and hope to be anywhere near correct. Everybody is different and while genetics does play a part, everyone is their own individual self.

[Tommie]

Thanks all

[delete.please]

I actually never had a wet dream either. As for ejaculation, you should be able to do it soon, just wait for a bit.

[Tommie]

Thankss For all the advise

[marktheman]

I'm 14 and I never had a wet dream. I've been masturbating for over a year.
I do it 3 times a day so I might never get a wet dream which is ok by me cuz they are messy.

[MrMontana]

i dont know if i had a wet dream but i can ejaculat when i masturbati and im 13 and im going to be 14 in october so u should be able to do it now i started when i was 12 i think and my puberty started when i was 11 and half i think

hoped this helped