Self-esteem and guys-help

[ashy-bear]

There is this guy that I really, really...really like. He doesn't go to my school, but I see him outside of school with other activities.

I want to tell him how I feel, but I can't bring myself to do it, because I'm always telling myself that he won't be interested. I look at the other girls in the class and think why he would like me over them.

How can I stop myself from thinking this and just tell him?

[byee]

Maybe you shouldn't be telling him!

There are a lot of ways to communicate your feelings to someone, words are just one way, and frankly it's overrated. Maybe you should just do what's comfortable for you, maybe just spend some time with him, hang out, chat, and so on. It'll be pretty obvious pretty soon to him how you feel, and how he feels will also be obvious. Less risk, and it get's you to the same place.

There's time for words later, when you're more comfortable with him.

[Archer600]

Failing is a self fulfilling prophesy. If you think that he won't be interested then he probubly won't. You need to have a little faith in yourself. Most girls I know who think like you are actualy the pretyest girls I know and if they showed some confidence in themselves I would ask them out in a second

[BuryYourFlame]

yes, as sam said, you should probably get to know him a bit more that you already do, how often do you see him though? from watching two of my friends try and go with only seeing each other once a week, i can say that it very rarely works.