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Skuzzy
March 6th, 2009, 10:38 PM
I've been dating my bf for about a year. All he wants is sex which isn't bad it's just annoying. I go over and starts giving me a bj. I like it just I've done it like 30 times with him in 5 months how do I tell him to back off.

Mzor203
March 6th, 2009, 10:43 PM
Sit him down, and explain to him that you think a relationship should be about more than sex. It's not hard, you just have to find a time to have a chat with him in which you express your feelings. He should understand, if he really does care for you.

Oblivion
March 6th, 2009, 11:00 PM
You have to communicate with him, not with us. Tell him that you don't want a relationship that's centered around sex. If he truly cares for you, he shouldn't want to have sex every time you are together. Relationships are far more than sex.

Skeln
March 6th, 2009, 11:28 PM
I agree. Just sit down with him and talk.

Sage
March 7th, 2009, 03:47 AM
People rarely change. If you believe it will help however, sit down and have a little chat with the guy.

A wooden chair and single lightbulb may help.

Halibut
March 7th, 2009, 04:41 AM
well if you have been with him a year and you cant talk to him, is it really worth it? but ya i would sit him down and talk to him :) how long have you too been sexually active, if this is your first relationship with that. that might be why

Haru Taki
March 7th, 2009, 09:36 PM
try spking to him