I LOVE HER!!! need HELP! or tips!-GUYS&GIRLS HELP!

[Haru Taki]

well...theres this girl at my school named aundria....i really like her ALOT....i conffessed to her that i loved her...and she is like i want you to like me as a friend but its not that easy guys.......i just cant get over her.....and whenever i try to ignore her she ALWAYS comes back....to we have a chance? oh our zodiacs are compatible too....leo and aries...well im an aries and shes a leo...

[Mzor203]

First of all, your zodiac signs mean nothing. That stuff is just all myth, nothing based in reality.

Aside from that, if she doesn't want to date you, and just wants to be your friend, you have to respect that. You should just try to be friends with her for right now. It may be hard to get over her, but that's what you have to do. Just get over her.

Over time, however, she may come to like you, especially if you guys spend a lot of time together. It may take a while, but there's always that chance.

Just don't make her uncomfortable. Right now, she doesn't want to date you, and you need to give her her space if that' what she wants.

[Haru Taki]

really? well...i spoke to my best friend at school who's a guy...and he said ignore her and she may come to like me.

[Mzor203]

Ignoring her isn't exactly the way to go. Actually that's a great way to make her get annoyed with you and lose interest in you. No one likes to be ignored... That's not a very nice feeling.

No, your best chance is to just keep hanging out with her. The longer two eople are around each other, the more they usually get attracted to one another. It's just human nature.

[Haru Taki]

Oh ok thanks dude! any other helpful tips?

[AllThatIsLeft]

ehhh i have to disagree with Rex, for some reason, i'm alwasy more attracted to a guy when they ignore me.

We want that attention, and when someone ignores us, it is frustrating, but we also try to get the attention back.

[BuryYourFlame]

Even though it may seem hard, you have to just try and get over her and still be there for her at the same time. Keeping her as a friend gives you more chance of you two getting closer. Being there for her means that she feels that she can talk to you, in time, she will see what a great friend you have been, whether this will lead to romantic feelings or not, i cannot tell, but she will be grateful that you have been there for her. Also i think that even though she doesn't have romantic feelings for you, that she would still really like to be your friend. Just try and stay friends with her, it will work out eventually,

Dec

[Haru Taki]

well...she is close to me....she tells me EVERYTHING.....and recently she was like she loves me as a bffl....but i wanna be her boyfriend....

[nick]

You took a big risk in telling her that you loved her, she could have put all the barriers up and tried to have nothing to do with you, so if she's still wants to be a friend its not so bad. At least if you're still friends there's the chance that things can get better. Its just how things are that you either have to take risks, by asking for a date or whatever, or keep eveything bottled up. If you take the risk you've got to be prepared to be knocked back. To be honest I'm more of a bottler myself but believe me thats not great either!

So sorry it doesn't seem to have worked out on this occasion, better luck next time. At least you didn't get a knee in the balls! lol

[Haru Taki]

You took a big risk in telling her that you loved her, she could have put all the barriers up and tried to have nothing to do with you, so if she's still wants to be a friend its not so bad. At least if you're still friends there's the chance that things can get better. Its just how things are that you either have to take risks, by asking for a date or whatever, or keep eveything bottled up. If you take the risk you've got to be prepared to be knocked back. To be honest I'm more of a bottler myself but believe me thats not great either!

So sorry it doesn't seem to have worked out on this occasion, better luck next time. At least you didn't get a knee in the balls! lol

OMG...i agree with that last part...lolz...so there is a chance especially since were best friends right now right?:D

[Bigdill317]

if i were u i would just ask her out u never know:)

[sebbie]

Ignoring her isn't exactly the way to go. Actually that's a great way to make her get annoyed with you and lose interest in you. No one likes to be ignored... That's not a very nice feeling.

No, your best chance is to just keep hanging out with her. The longer two eople are around each other, the more they usually get attracted to one another. It's just human nature.

The ignoring thing depends on the girl. It will send some girls crazy about you other girls away thinking your a dick :P.

I also think that if you hang around to much you risk being "friend-zoned" you are too good of a friend for anything to happen.

[Beautiful Obsession]

first forget about the Zodiac signs lol.. that doesnt mean anything:) but you'v told this girl how you feel, theres nothing more you can do, if she only wants friendhship theres nothin you can do, you need to live with it.. sorry babe but its best to give it you straight.. just continue to be good friends nd see what happens xx

[Allspice_la_fever]

I'm aries to!!!
Anyway...
If she likes you as a friend then you definitely have a chance. I really love all my guy friends and I confide in them more than I do my closer girl friends. They really seem to support me and I love to talk to them. Keep spending time with her, you never know. All you can do is remain her friend. It sounds like she really cares about you, which is great. There is hope, but it probably won't happen just yet.

[flyboy27]

ya the zodiac stuff is pointles! guys is guys and chicks is chicks! and i think that your really deep in friend zone right now. It is very hard to get out. you probably have a chance...but I'd look at other girls in the meantime. She's a good friend and personally I'd keep her as a good friend..sorry dude.

[StoppingTime]

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