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beautifullytragic
January 1st, 2006, 02:10 AM
my best friend tried to kill herself this week...she took 24 advils in a row...she hasn't told anyone but me and she doesn't want to talk about it other than what she's already told me...I'm scared and I don't know what to do...please help! I already have enough problems of my own to deal with, and similar problems to hers as this, not suicidal, but others, but I don't know what to do with this...I don't know what to do...

TheWizard
January 1st, 2006, 06:40 AM
Yea you need to tell someone in case she tries again. She needs help to get over her depression.

dying lullaby
January 1st, 2006, 10:17 AM
either make her tell someone or tell yourself...either way let her know that you are telling. it wont shock her that way. but you have to tell someone. this is very serious. she didnt die this time but she could the next - and i wouldnt believe her if she said there wont be a next because she could just be trying to hide it from you...which is very likely.

tell someone, please. dont allow the possibility of the guilt you would feel if she does die from another attempt

Pink-Floyd
January 1st, 2006, 10:32 AM
Yeah I Agree with them, you have to tell someone, you dont want to lose your best friend do you, u have to get her some help and sort out her problems

Φρανκομβριτ
January 1st, 2006, 01:40 PM
as Much as you may feel you are betraying her, you do have to say something. Would you rather her be in danger and keep a secret, or possibly save her life and tell someone? Maybe you should contact a teen hotline. I think that might help you.

beautifullytragic
January 1st, 2006, 01:52 PM
thank y'all so much!

diStURbEd
March 29th, 2006, 09:02 PM
O.K. listin to this..


I know you probly dont want to hurt her feeling by going out and telling someone, it was a good desiction to come here and talk about it.
I also know that you are extremely stressed out well this is what you should try and do.

1. Talk to her about it talk about a lot of good things and what she would miss

2. Hang out alot and try to cheer her up, ake her out (not like gf and bf) I mean go to a movie with a bunch of friends

3. Talk to your parents or guidince counsler they can help alot and usually classified

Well I hope these tips help, and dont worry you and her will get through this

northskater110
April 29th, 2006, 03:55 PM
ok check this out... u could do 2 things

1.u could tell some1, she might get a little angry, but live

or

2.u could just sit there doing nothing as she dies


its ur choice

infextus disease
November 8th, 2006, 02:30 AM
ive had a few friends kill them selves. the first one i ignored basically... its a long story but i was the last person she talked to and i still feel guilty to this day. the next one... i didnt ignore but i didnt tell anyone either, i thought i could do it all myself. sometimes you can't sometimes you can. just please talk to somone about this. if nothing else PM me and maybe i can help you a little more

Sapphire
November 8th, 2006, 02:12 PM
Talking with her about her problems and normal stuff will be great for her. Do stuff with her as well. These things can not be underestimated. Having said this, you seriously have to tell someone. She may get angry with you now. But when she gets over it all and starts to enjoy life again she will be so thankfull that you were there and helped her get the help she needed.