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Eclipse
March 5th, 2009, 11:48 PM
For every little thing that pisses me off, I wanna cut. Even during school I wanna cut. What the hell is happening? Everything started crashing down on my head all of a sudden. I'm always sad now and wanna cut myself up. I want to die. Sorry for getting off topic but that explains everything.

Destiny&Desire
March 6th, 2009, 11:59 AM
Hey, I get that too, and I know it's not nice.

It's just little things which make the whole world seem absolutely crap (to say the least lol), but there are ways in which you can at least get rid of the feeling for a short amount of time.

There's always self-harm distraction methods (I'm sure they're posted somewhere on this website/on Google somewhere), and there's also just things like distracting yourself with other things to lift your mood.

This might just be for me, I dunno, but I find that sleeping helps? It temporarily relieves any stress and 99% of the time you'll wake up feeling better. Things like comedy films help too =]

Is there any particular reason you're feeling so down?
x x x

(sorry if that just like... didn't help at all XD)

byee
March 6th, 2009, 01:35 PM
Therapy, therapy, therapy. Tell someone, get some.

Whatever is going on for you, it sounds pretty intense. And, at 13, you can expect more intensity. Get some help now, so you're in a better place to deal with it!

Until then, resist the urge to cut. You're in enough pain, you don't need any more.

Go tell someone.

peanutx
March 7th, 2009, 09:28 PM
It will only get worse if you don't get help for yourself. You know what you need to do, you know you don't want to feel like that anymore, so do something about it.

GreyxRainbow
March 11th, 2009, 03:22 PM
There's always self-harm distraction methods (I'm sure they're posted somewhere on this website/on Google somewhere), and there's also just things like distracting yourself with other things to lift your mood.


http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/announcement.php?f=16&a=52

Here are some. (=

Sorry I can't help more.. I don't know what to say to help you. xx

aLeX..
March 14th, 2009, 02:54 AM
Hi, I also have the urge to cut during school. And I manage to. I don't like it, but if I don't, I get panic/anxiety attacks and I can't stop pacing. I've even tried drowning myself, strangling myself and overdosing. My friends suggested to me that I tell the school counsellor and my form tutor. They took all sharp things away from me and told my parents. I felt horrible and my dad had to go to hospital because of the stress it was giving him, I felt even more guilty, which makes me cut more. I now go into friends and teachers pencilcases and bags, use their scissors, and then put them back. I always feel really ashamed. I see a psychologist, but its not really helping at the moment, I'm hoping it will help me in time. I still don't want to be alive. My friends, the school cousellor, and now my parents think i'm feeling happier. When I just want be dead. I know I've gone a bit off subject, I hope I didn't bother anyone with this comment...
x

messed up
March 14th, 2009, 07:31 AM
i might not be much help here but i understand how you're feeling. i tried to kill myself a couple of years ago and let me tell you i REALLY regretted it! i was so scared about hurting my parents and friends afterwards! You really need to stop lying it wont help you at all, just keep thinking about your future (that works for me) and be honest with yourself and your family and they WILL be able to help you. Dont worry you're not alone.
x

Beautiful Obsession
March 15th, 2009, 12:34 PM
I have the urge to cut alot to. even at school sometimes, but i just make all my m8s go hyper and start havin laff wiv them, it helps me.. but everyones differant. Everytime u want to cut think of something u like doing or do something like doing, you should get it off your mind.
soz if its bad advice. Good luck :