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Skuzzy
March 5th, 2009, 08:24 PM
Ok I've been fired from multiple jobs because I'm gay. On application it asks for sexuality I say gay. I'm not going to lie but it's really got me down. Is it possible to file lawsuits about this sort of thing? My life is getting worst

Oblivion
March 5th, 2009, 08:29 PM
Uhm, YES!
It's illegal to fire you explicitly because you are gay. Although they could theoretically chalk it up to something else.
So it may be a time waster, or it could come with a benefit.

Skuzzy
March 5th, 2009, 08:34 PM
It still sevrely brought down my self esteem

Oblivion
March 5th, 2009, 08:36 PM
Yes, well, there will always be people in the world trying to bring you down, because you are gay. To me, from what I've seen, you seem proud of being gay, which is wonderful. Not as many are that lucky, to be happy with themselves regardless of how they feel.

byee
March 5th, 2009, 10:23 PM
Alec, it's not legal for anyone to ask you about yuor sexuality on a job app. If it's there, you can either choose to not submit the application, or leave the q blank. Your orientation has no bearing on your qualifications for any employment, it's a private, personal matter.

As you go thru life, you'll learn that there are certain things which are private and to be shared only with close, safe people, and others aren't entitled to that priviledge. This isn't a gay issue, btw, everyone should be mindful of when it's good to reaveal anything personal to others.

Your self esteem is based on things other than your sexuality, it's really only a part of who you are. Focus on those other parts, work on making them the best they can be, then share them with the world. In return, you'll get the acknowlegement you need, which will foster good self esteem, and save that 'private' part for the special people who have earned it. Don't wear it on your sleeve so much.

Skuzzy
March 6th, 2009, 01:10 AM
Thanks alot

foof1
March 6th, 2009, 02:15 AM
It is SO illegal to fire you because you're gay. You really should file a lawsuit.

Adam d batten
March 6th, 2009, 05:45 PM
I agree file file file until u get some were with them

griffince
March 6th, 2009, 07:47 PM
hang in there mate life will get easier they keep tell me ull get through this i no.
coz its so so so so illegal to fire u coz ur gay

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~Vindication

Maxeditout
April 12th, 2009, 07:34 AM
Im gay and the owners/managers didnt know at furst and its a christian company they know now and we are very close and dont mind it