View Full Version : Girls after me!!! Help!!!
Skuzzy
March 5th, 2009, 07:45 PM
Hey most people know I'm gay and have a bf. Well multple girls are obsessed over me, yea I have girl...friends but the tell me they want to have sex and give me a bj. I tell them to stop and not interested they won't leave me alone. They have even grabbed my ass and balls. How can I get them to listen!!!!
AllThatIsLeft
March 5th, 2009, 08:29 PM
you got to be firm
.. protect your personal space. don't let them touch you
IAMWILL
March 5th, 2009, 08:36 PM
Well I agree with Paula, but here's my take.
Ok, here goes......
Girls crave attention from guys they like, period. Your obviously a guy they're attracted to. You can try to ignore them, but girls tend to stay persistent longer than guys in relationship.
You said you're gay, and you have a BF, but not trying to question your sexuality or anything, but you really never know during puberty. You might just want to give one of the girls a shot, and see how you feel. If you do though, make sure you let your boyfriend or if he's you ex then know, and enter the situation with an open mind! That way it's like a new start.
Hope I helped.
byee
March 5th, 2009, 10:15 PM
I'm assuming they know you're gay, right?
If so, they're really taunting you here, they're making fun of you, they're having difficulty accepting your orientation. This is really unacceptable, it's not Ok to grab someone's body (most especially their genitals), even if they're doing it in jest.
You should nicely but firmly tell them you do not appreciate these behaviors and that you need them to stop.
foof1
March 6th, 2009, 02:06 AM
You could do the "dorky" thing and threaten to tell a teacher. Or you could go all the way and charge them with sexual harassment. Personally, I think that it would be really cool if you charged them with sexual harassment.
Donkey
March 6th, 2009, 02:12 AM
^There is really no need to charge anyone with sexual harassment in this situation.
I would tell them to fuck it and go and find some other friends -
They're ignorant bitches.
Haru Taki
March 6th, 2009, 07:06 PM
OMG....well you could try spking to them...and if they continue ......be agressive...MEAN and emo.
Tommie
March 7th, 2009, 08:07 PM
duude
YOU ARE A GOD!
how do you get them so easy and your gay aswell! ( nothing against gays or anything)
Hmm maybe girls like a gay guy hmmm
Haru Taki
March 7th, 2009, 09:15 PM
duude
YOU ARE A GOD!
how do you get them so easy and your gay aswell! ( nothing against gays or anything)
Hmm maybe girls like a gay guy hmmm
yes they like gay guys cuz they can relate alot. thts why u see alot of girls around gay guys.
Pizza Boy
March 8th, 2009, 12:17 AM
Hey man i have this little saying.....Girls like what they can't have ^_^ think about that.
Halibut
March 8th, 2009, 12:37 AM
most likeley they want you because they know you cant have you :P its very complicated yet not complicated enough haha
The Boy Genius
June 23rd, 2009, 08:28 AM
Lucky no girls like me. : (
NightFighter
June 23rd, 2009, 08:41 AM
If they see you kissing or holding hands with your boyfriend then maybe they will get the message :]
IanMilo
June 23rd, 2009, 09:28 AM
yes they like gay guys cuz they can relate alot. thts why u see alot of girls around gay guys.
not true necissarily im straight and mostly all of my friends are girls and they follow me EVERYWHERE but they kinda respect privacy with me so yeh but the guys are like extremely immature in my area so i hang out with girls who tend to be more mature
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