Attracted to another friend

[Skuzzy]

I'm gay and I have a boyfriend, I'm extremely attracted to a friend who I see 2 weeks a year.he lives in another state. He doesent know i'm gay but we....he experimented I.e. Anal,oral,jackin off which eachother. And I've been thinking of him alot. We talk occasionally, should I come out to him and tell him how I feel? It's confusing

[Oblivion]

Well, you do already have a boyfriend.
Why would you come out to a guy you see only 2/52 weeks a year?
It would just mess up your current relationship, and IMO long distance relationships don't work.

If I were you, I would come out as a friend. Tell him you are gay, but make sure he understands you have a boyfriend [unless you'd rather try the long distance relationship of course! :P]

[Skuzzy]

Yeah I guess your right... Thanks it's just been on my mind and had to let it go...

[Prince_of_Peace]

Would that be cheating to your boyfriend? I suggest you do not do it and perhaps be single to avoid hurting people. what do i know..its just my stupid opinion.

[Skuzzy]

Yes it would be considered cheating, I just needed to get this thing off my chest...

[Prince_of_Peace]

I am so sorry Skuzzy...it must be very difficult for you. I think you need to control your sexual urges and pay attention to what you really want first. We go to time of trial and I am confident you will be making the right decisions. Love yourself and you will feel better.

[ILOVEYOU]

i do agree with Prince Of Peace, Completely. Love Yourself, no one deserve's your Love.

[Halibut]

well first i would think about yoru current relationship..do you really want to give it up..if you do i would be honest to the other guy

[Skuzzy]

He's coming into town O shizit

[ILOVEYOU]

well, Go For It then